My boyfriend keeps wanting to have sex...

We've been dating for a month. And not too long ago, he finally convinced me and we've had sex a few times. Sometimes I get the feeling he doesn't really care about me as much as he says he does. And his best friend always seems to get in the way. I...

don't know what to do. I really care about him, and I keep telling him I don't want to do it anymore. But when we're in the situation, it just happens. And his ex girlfriend of 3 years recently moved back. I keep getting the feeling that he still wants to be with her. And he constantly talks about her. What should I do? Should I leave him? Or stick around?

A few alarm bells ringing! He forces you to have sex with him? NOT GOOD. He isn't respecting you and he isn't listening to what you are saying. I think you guys REALLY need to sit down and have a real talk...which means tell him exactly what you've told us. If you want this relationship to work you have to confront him about what your feeling and about him not respecting your needs. You also have to confront him about his feelings for his ex and tell him how it makes you feel when he talks about her CONSTANTLY. Would he appreciate you rambling on about your ex forever?
Seriously, have a good talk with him, see what he has to say for himself and agree on what changes are need for this relationship to work (ex.: not talking about his ex, not pressuring you into having sex, not letting his friends get in the way of your relationship). If he can't discuss this seriously with you and truly respect and listen to you then don't stick around to be mistreated and humiliated. Be strong, put your needs first.

talk to him...

What do I say to him?

I think you should leave him.
He clearly has no respect for you, once you said you didn't want to have sex anymore he should have stopped trying. He sounds very manipulative and that's why you keep giving in. Also the fact that he keeps talking about his ex girlfriend, that's showing no respect towards you. You deserve much better than him, find someone who cares about your feelings and respects you as a woman.

***And not too long ago, he finally [convinced] me and we've had sex a few times.***

Keyword... CONVINCED. Meaning you didn't want to. He sounds manipulative, and you sound a little submissive. You should drop him... move on... find someone a little more respectful.

Tell him exactly what stephanie987 said :-)

987

he has nooo respect! leave him, before he leaves you... dont let him get the last laugh!!

-constantly mentioning his ex is a HUGE sign. he still thinks of her every day. not good.

-...one moth and your having sex? ...that's pretty fast. I'm thinking this guy got into a relationship with you for one reason, and he's getting it.

-leave this guy fast. he's up to no good and he certainly doesn't care about your feelings.

Well its obvious that he just wants you for sex. Personally, I would have talk to him about him talking about his ex as soon as he mentioned her I wouldn't have had sex with him if I didn't want to. He wants his ex back you shouldn't settle for him. Leave himm!!...butt if you dontt want too talkk to him if he doesn't change deff. Leave him. I completly agree with everyone else. you shouldd really take the advice.=)

Thanks everyone.

I talked to him yesterday and we've decided that no more sex. And we're just going to take things slow now.