My boyfriend is wack!

I went through my boyfriends phone yesterday night, and saw some texts from some girl. We have spoken about it before and I got mad with him an said I didnt like it, shes young and clingy and wont leave him alone.. Text said "how we going to get there, you havent got a car at the moment" and all sent and had been deleted.
Theres no nice way of telling your boyfriend you have just looked through there phone.. So I couldnt tell him. My boyfriend has a big attitude problem, and everything always tends to be my fault. I love him to peices and do everything for him but could that be it? Am I not letting him chase enough.

From a guys point of veiw what you think I should do?
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I'm a girl but your relationship doesn't sound healthy. Keything is your blaming yourself for his attitude problems. I suggest you both either shape it up or break it up.

I agree with xxlovehurstbabexx...

im a girl too, I've seen numbers in my boyfriends phone but I asked him about it immediately. If he wants to go play then let him go. If he wants to stay he's got to act right. he can choose not to talk to the other girl!

One of my good friends just went through that, turns out he was dating one of them and cheating with a few others. This isn't a safe relationship, you need to get out of it right away before you end up even more hurt.

I am a dude and I think you should dump him he has a lack of trust for u!!!