My boyfriend is trying to chang who I really am

im 25 and my boyfriend of 2 years is 31. he was married before for 12 years with 2 kids a 13 yr old daughter and a 9 yr old boy. he was cheated on sveral time that is why they divorced. he and his daughter live with me and my 5 yr old daughter. for the past year he has turn very controlling and jelouse. ever time we go out he accuses me of flirting and says im never around him. he always notice when I leave to walk around but never when im right beside him. he watches me like a hawk. you see im that fun loving social type that like to have fun. so it is very intemidating for him to see me talking to other. just resently he told me if I ever go out with any of my friends again then he will be gone when I get back. he also said that when he met me he thought he wanted to be with that fun, active, outging, no what she doing kinda girl. but now that is not who he wants to be with. that hurt when he said that. I have did a 360 for this relationship. I seldom do anything without him. the thing is he also has no friends so he has no one to talk to but me. I find myself not knowing who I am and I dont like this. please help.

Cause of his previous relationship he has got serious trust issues, you guys should maybe consider couple therapy or something drastic must happen in your relationship otherwise im sorry to say it's doomed.

Hello sorry its going that way but its not to late to save your realationship if hes willing to get help for his lack of trust and his anti friends issues,he needs a buddy or two.2years is a nice amount of time being together so get him some counseling a.s.a.p if he cherish your realationship as much as you do.also invite him with yoy when you hangin out with your friends,also do not cut off your friends for him you can slow it up with your friends but dont kick them to the curb totally.because he is trying to isolate you from people which is not healthy for you.best wishes

I really think this guy is restricting you from being you. If you can't be yourself while dating him, then you two aren't meant for each other. Obviously, he has trust issues that need to be worked out. This situation is going to change your relationships with your friends. Unless he can work out the issues he has, he isn't worth it.