My boyfriend is mean to me

I really dont know where to start. I been wit my man for a year and hes so mean to me we been throo a lot in the beginning he was so nice then he started getting really controllin I cant talk to anyone not girls not guys I ran away and lived wit him but ended up leavin ...I lwas living with him on christmas he got drunk and called me a hoe said he didnt care about and hit me really bad it was worse enough I wasnt with my family. A few days later I left to hang out wit a friend and he followed me with his friend in a car and got out and starting punching me repeatdly in the face I had a black eye my head was really swollen he then through me in a car with his friend and took me back to where we were lving the cops came he got arrested and I went to the police station where the ambulence came. We stood seperated for a while but I dont know why I missed him and I went back to him like a dum azz . Now hes living wit me and my father. My father let him move him cause he was afraid I was going to run away again. Now I feel trapped. He gets mad when I talk 2 my friends he calls me annoyin and says he hates me every nite he tries to have sex wit me even after I say no eventually he stops but den gets mad at me and ends up sleepin downstairs .I dont understand why he cant just sleep wit me and hold me he always calls me a hoe and a bytch . He always brings up things that I've done before I even met him which I feel is not really his business. He always makes me cry and den laughs at me. He lies about what time hes workin till. Im nto allowed to go out but he chills wit his friends then calls the house to make sure im home. I duno why but I love him I wan him 2 change and go back to the way he used to be..I know I should leave him but he made me lose all my friends and especially now that I got used to livin wit him I know im going to be so lonely if I kick him out and I dont want to regret it. I dont know how to let him go when I know I should...help!!

did you even read what you wote, what the hell would make you want to stay. look, guys can act nice at the beggining of a relationship. But its when you date for as long as you and him have been that their true side comes out. your not going to change him, you just can't and your going to waste your time trying. If he's that abusive at your age, imagine how much worse its going to get if you stay with him. he sounds like one of those phyco's that will kill you, and thats no joke. just get him out of your house, you'll ghet used to sleeping alone, and you'll find some one else. Someone who actually appreciate you and won't treat you like sh*t. Your life will correct itself once he's out of the picture, you'll get back in touch with your friends. Look at what your life will be if you don't get rid of him now. that guy sounds like a controlling phyco, he has all the characteristics of a wife beater, do you want to live your life like that.

im sorry to say this babygirl...but if you are going to stay with this dude after all this shyt then you deserve everything you get from him...No im not sayin that what he does is right(cause if I was yo father id kill his azz)...but if you want to stay wit him then it is what it is...if your man beats yo azz and makes you cry and tell you your a bytch and all that kinda shyt and you stay with him I assume you like the shyt...this is stupid why is this even up for discussion... I cant even believe that you need advice on this...its simple 1)leave him and be happy 2)stay and keep bein treated like shyt...u decide...

dude, just kick him out. you don't love him. you're afraid of him. and I don't know about you but I'd rather be lonely than being afraid of someone hurting or possibly killing me. I've been in the same situation almost exactally. I was afraid everynight he would come home and murder me if he was too messed up on drugs or anything. get away from him now while you have it the easiest it gets.

I agree with sgt harris.