My boyfriend is in jail, what should I do

MY BOYFRIEND GOT LOCKED UP ABOUT AMONTH AGO, AND HE IS OR WAS SUPOSE TO GET OUT THIS SUNDAY,BUT WHEN I WENT TO GO CHECK UP ON HIM THEY HAD ANOTHER CHARGE: FORGERY. I HOPE HE GETS OUT SOON,CAUSE I REALLY DO MISS HIM. PLEASE HELP ME OUT AND TELL ME what TO DO ASAP!

FROM BABYGIRL_86

my boyfriends in jail too.
he sold pot and coke..
I still love him though..
dont forget about him if you love him.
and be there for him

If the guy is already in jail and is being charged for something new what else has he done that you dont know about?

is he a nice guy, because to me, he sounds rather scary-hes a criminal 4 gods sake! what did he oringinally do to get him locked up-if it was violent I woodnt trust him. however, if you really love him, visist him, stick by him, and show him that you love him. if he EVER treats you rong though, leave him IMMEDIATELY!!!!

Dont want to be mean, but Do you need help???? If the man is locked up, what are you doing with him? Girl, I don't know what he did but it isn't a good idea you dealin' wit this guy. You can find a man that will love you and will stick by your side. What side is he on????? He isnt good news.... trust me and take my word. Come 2 me a year from now and tell me where you stand wit him?????

girl he is a wast of time so fine someone else he comes out because if he is a jail his not a good partner he will be bringing you more problems

listen person and other people of the room

I agree with these people and also the girl, maybe this guy is a criminal and a bad person, but if this girl loves her and if this guy treats her with respect and love I think its fine but you guys if she does leave him if this dude is a criminal wont he like go after her

I really dontknow what to do for you but better make up your mind and good luck
phillip

I am in the same positions as you!!! My boyfriend was locked up for a month and just today he has been transferred to a drug treatment program. He's a good guy and he loves me to death and I love him too. If you really love the guy, be supportive. Find out why he is doing the things he's doing. Does he need money or is he into drugs? Maybe he needs a little time in the slammer to realize that he has a girl waiting anxiously back home that misses him very much. For my guy, he said that was the only thing that helped him through that month. Well, that and the continuous letters saying how much I missed him and how it was killing me to have him in there. Maybe making him feel bad for disappointing you will straighten him up. Good luck!

Hey! Well I'm 15 years old and I have a 17 yr old boyfriend in jail right now! I know how you feel. EVERYONE looks down on me for stayin with him and all this! But the truth is, if they knew him like you knew him, they'd love him too! Thats how I look at it! Dont listen to all those other girls that said all that crap cause they havent been in the position and don't know the boy! If you love him and he loves you then wait on him, the best thing you can do for him is to be there for him and believe in him, because im sure he has lost a lot of people in his life because of this! So be there for him, be his best friend like your suppose to be!! Hope I helped!!

yeah I know how you feel, my boyfriend is in jail for 6 months. Stay with him but follow your heart and instinct if you know its right. a pic of my boyfriend is below.

he looks like a wanker but if you love him then wait 4 him, if you only have been going out a short while then rather move on trust me you can do better

I always told my boyfriend that I will be there no matter what for him. and I will :] so if you love him you should wait for him and be there for him, as long as you trust him. a guy you just like or whatever is not even worth the wait.

how's it been? mine was taken yesterday and one day has seemed like an etirnity. I can't decide whether to be there when he gets out. it could be anywhere for a few weeks or months. he goes to court tomrrow or monday. I love him so much, but I have more than enough in my life. I can't have him leaving me everytime he does something stupid. I'd like to erase him from my life, but I don't know if that's what I really want now. crying is all I can seem to do...

its been rough. my boyfriend gives up too easily. I wish he would make more effort. he seems to think everything in life is supposed to be easy. and he should know how this effects you cause he is probably taking advantage of that fact that you're always going to be there waiting on him, and trust me, it hurts the most to love someone who doesnt care about you. a lot.

well personally, if you love someone it aint easy to just break up with him. She must really love him. So I would say dont break up with him. He needs you right now. He needs all the support and needs to know that there is someone out there who cares for him. I can relate to this because my boyfriend got sent to some juvenile detention thing for 6 months. I wont be seing him for 6 months. But I want him to know that he's the only one for me. And I need him to know that I'llbe here for him, through THICK and THIN. so Dont listen to the other ones thinking hes a CRIMINAL.. if he treats you good then thats all that matters.. wait for the guy. He'll thank you in the long run....

My boyfriend did 17 months in jail, and I was there faithfully, If you love him stick by him, That is something he will never forget!! Trust me! our relationship is even better now that he's home, I don't want for anything, we argue like every other couple but in the end he knows that I'm the one who really loves him no matter what! STICK BY YOUR MAN:}

I understand what your going through. My boyfriend is locked up in jail and he was suppose to get out in 6 months but he got another charge for hitting a police officer. So he got some more months. But you got to trust GOd through every up and down. Its hard to be alone for that long. you cant hear his voice, see him, or feel his touch. its hard but you have to be strong. If you truly love him and want to be with him, then wait on him. Some people is like OMG he is such a total criminal but they have no clue what you are going through and its different when it happens to you. even though it wont be the same when he gets out you will just have to start where it finished for a while. GIRL, STAY STRONG!!!

I AGREE, MY FIANCE HAS 3 YEARS LEFT TO DO, PEOPLE TELL ME DONT STAY WITH HIM BECAUSE I AM A GOOD WOMEN, AND HAVE EVERYTHING GOING WITH ME CAREER WISE ( I AM 20 TURNING 21 NEXT MONTH) I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH SO DOES HE WE BEEN IN LOVE FOR 7 years , YET HE HAVE COMPLEX ISSUES THAT GOVERN HIS ACTIONS, NOW I UNDERSTAND WHAT HE WENT THROUGH I AM HERE FOR HIM, VISIT HIM TWICE A WEEK, BE HIS SUPPORT SYSTEM. WOMEN IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM. I TOLD HIM THAT IN SITUATIONS LIKE THSE YOU WOULD SEE WHO IS REALLY THERE FOR YOU, AND HE KNOWS THAT I AM REAL AND ALWAYS TRUE TO HIM.. WE ARE GETTING MARRIED WHEN HE COMES HOME. GOOD LUCK

My boyfriend is also locked up in FL prison system. It hurts more than anything because we came down here to FL to start over and he got locked up 17 days after we came down here; now he is serving a 27 month sentence for being stupid. I am sticking by him and I pray that he learns from this experience. If you really love your boyfriend, you will stick by them and show them that you are there for them. If it is meant to be, he will change when he gets home. You can't force them to be someone that they arent

Hey my boyfriend just went to jail to for a long time. I am really confused to I feel like I don't want to do anything but you have to relize you have to go on with you're life he knew what kinda trouble he could get in and now he has to pay for the consequences. It's hard Im not going to lie but at least you know he is safe and not cheating on you and who knows maybe he'll think about you and when he gets out you guys could be way closer then ever. Basically go on with you're life write letters and leave him messages and he can call you back. But don't let it slow you down life is to short to be sad and he wouldn't want you to be. Guys are strong and he will be okay I am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 20. I live in a small town in N.D. and hang out with him everyday, we have been going out for a year and 1 week. He is on probation tho for another 4 years and he just got charged with perifonila and having shotguns because he hunts but he is not suppose to because probation which is gay but it will be okay. I guess I should take my own advice it's hard but it's life. Good luck and if you guys are meant to be you will be.

I know how you feel, my boyfriend got arrested like january 3 and got out two weeks later, but he has to go back to jail in about two weeks for two years. I dont know what im going to do. but I know im going to stick by his side, because he is my everything. if you really love him, you will be there for him. just stay strong.

Personally I would stick by him, because if the shoe was on the other foot, you would want someone to be there for you. Mine has been locked up for 16 and a half months, and he comes home next month, im sure that we will be married, and have children, because the love is truly there. No one says you cant still go on bout you buisness, but its always good to have love and support for the one you love...