My boyfriend is gay, what do I do ?

Okok . I know its bad but I was on his myspace and looked at his messages , well what a read brought me to tears . There was about 10 back and forth emails between him and this guy , my boyfriend was talking about bein gay and wantin to hook up with this guy ! Like sexual stuff was mentioned . OMG. What do I do ? Do I let it go or confront him ? How do I bring it up ? OMG what do it do ?? Please help me !!

just say honey are you gay, and dont lie

he may be joking...a lot of guys joke about takin it or bein gay or what ever but its just them messing around...dont just simply state "are you gay" cause that would probably freak him out if he is and if hes not that would really offend him just make sure that he is comfortable talkin to you and everything so that if he is he opens up to you and just make sure that you love him no matter what...if he is it most likely has nothing to do with you its just him and hes slowly realizing what he wants...kinda like an eppisode of Will and Grace lol

You have invaded his privacy so how are you going to tell him that you think he is gay without him knowing what you have done. Ask him straight out.