My boyfriend is abusive.

My boyfriend jake is releee abussive.
He does drugs. And hes physically and sexually abused me many times.
To many times for words.
We have had consensual sex but all the other times I didnt want to.
Im a head cheerleader and hes a football player
Were both 16.
I lovee him.. But he has a bad temper.
Noone noees about this except for the people who are reading or answering this.

The only thing that has kept me from breaking down is mariska hargitay and chris meloni.
And l&o:svu..
Sometimes I think of the cases as me.

I need someone to talk to too, someone that cares.and I just need someone who would help me.

Please. Help.

If you talk to me ill tell you the details.

awww... sweetie... I've been there and I'm sure I noe what you're going through!! I've been pushed and beatened to the floor where my ex would yell and harass/sexually harass me till I cried, I'd get up and he'd smack me down again. it was till I got a cut under my eye and some bruises on my body, that some of my girlfriends saw while I was changing during gym. - they asked me what was going on, and I broke down, cried and told them, and that day after school, they took me to a guidance counsellor, to get it all straightened out.

the whole thing after that is a blur to me... all I remember is that my teacher informed my parents, he got called down by the office the following morning, got expelled, and that was the last I saw of him.

I blocked him from msn, deleated and blocked his email... and didn't answer his calls for a full 2 weeks. then slowly... he was forgotten, and out of my life!! I noe it's ruff, and I noe it's hard, but it all starts off by telling someone you trust, and someone you know that can help you and him. and tho it may mean breaking up, it's for the best. - for you and him. sweetie, he needs to grow up, and know that violance isn't the way to treat a girl!!

it's been about two years I haven't seen this abussive ex boyfriend of mine!!... I'm now dating an amazing guy - one who treats me right and with full respect!! if I was able to go through it!! you are too!!

I wish you best of luck,
Gracia ♥

hey funmail me id love to help =)

Heyy.
Yeahh.
Same thing with me.
Law and Order SVU is my only escape
And mariska hargitay keeps me from breaking.
Funmail me. I am 99.9% positive I can help.

Dear chearleaderr1832,
First of all it isn't okay if he treats you this way...even if you love him this is not allowed. You have to talk with a trusted adult right now. You are in danger and I know you are afraid and I know you don't think he would ever go so far as killing you. But did you think he would ever go so far as abusing you...NO you never did. Girls in your position need to be strong and speak with someone who can help you. Because there are some very serious issues here like he could get worse if you threaten to leave him so you must speak with someone who is a professional about this and do it now before your parents who I'm sure love you will end up crying over your death. This is very serious and you know it or you wouldn't have reached out. If you are finding it hard to speak with them go and get a note pad and write it down on the paper saying that you are being abused by your boyfriend...hand it to your mother or trusted adult. Let them take care of you and this serious situation. Now that you have told us, you must tell them. Do it so that the people who love you will not loose you.
Sue...good luck

 
It is time to dump him. There are too many nice guys out there who would treat you properly.

If you think your safety would be at risk by dumping him the get a restraining order.

does he love you?
because what hes doing really isnt acceptable,
and you shouldbnt have to put up with it
he should respect you and your feelings
I would advise you that it would be best to get out of this relationship
and find somebody who loves you just the way you are, and whho will respect you

Never stay with an abusive partner. Abusers are always more and more aggressive, and are never more and more tender.

This is really bad.
But I think that you should dump him.
No matter what he does to you after the dumping if he really loved you then he wont hurt you physically sexually or mentally.

I know from personally
If he was like my boyfriend BREAK UP WITH HIM IMMEDIATELY

Thnk you for answering my question.. and I will deff do something..

Again Thnk u .

hey my ex boy friend matthew abused me like he would kick me and worsted of all he raped me but hes in rehab and I went to a theripist

heyyy well umm.
I know exactly what your going threw.
please email me and we will talk about this.
I was abused aswell.
well I hope your ok.
bye
Email: Fun mail me

We should talk.