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My boyfriend doesnt have time for me :(

=] Asked by kaileyxox45 over 2 years ago, 4 answers.
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It seems like my boyfriend doesnt have time for me anymore. We used to hang out every weekend and always after school at my house on fridays. For the past month or two when I ask him over he always says hes hanging out with his other friends or staying at the school to skateboard or something. I even bribed him (without thinking ) saying he can feel me up if he came over! I seemed so despret! But my question is, why do you think he doesnt want to hang with me anymore? It hurts me to think he doesnt have time for me or something

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Mar 30, 2006, 04:43PM
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How long have you guys been going out? If its been a while, your boyfriend might be getting too comfortable in the relationship. It sounds like he's taking advantage of you always being there for him, and you might need to do something to remind him that you need attention too. Have you talked to him about it yet? If you haven't, then you might want to say something to let him know that you're upset about not being able to see him as much. Remind him that since you're his girlfriend, you need his attention because you need to feel appreciated. Hopefully he'll understand and try to be there for you more often. If that doesn't work, then maybe you could try to think of some fun, new things for you guys to do when you're hanging out. Maybe you can go to a new place, or instead of just having him over, maybe you guys can have some mutual friends over your house to make things a little more exciting. Make sure that you're doing things that you both enjoy when you're hanging out. Good luck with everything, and I hope this helps :-)

Sweet Answered by wakingbeauty on Mar 30, 2006, 08:02PM
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I guess it depends on how long you guys have been dating. When I first dated my boyfriend, now husband, we were joined at the hip...then all of a sudden he started hanging with his friends more (however this didnt bother me-but that's another story) but then as time went by again, he came back to me and sometimes when I stumble across his friends they be like "Man you took my friend away we hardly see him" soooo if you guys have only been dating for a couple of months...the newness has probably worn away and his friends are giving him a hard time about having a "girl" split up the group. He'll get over it and come back to you, hopefully. If its been longer than that, like a year or so...then listen to that other advice posted. Hope this helps.

Answered by wonderinghowandwhen on Mar 30, 2006, 09:28PM
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Yeah, like next time he wants to hang out just say that your like doing somehting. And when he tries to approach you to kiss just like gently puch him away, make him want you really bad. Good luck

Answered by dramaqueen on Mar 31, 2006, 09:31AM
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How long have you been going out with him? Maybe he is just tired of hanging out with you all the time, maybe he wants to hang out with some of his budies. I have had a boyfriend like that before, but we broke it off cause I always wanted my boyfriend to always be with me, so whatever you do don't let him go if you like him a lot. You should just let him have his spave for awhile. Than next time he asked you to do something you should say I am busy. This is what I think.

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