My boyfriend doesnt get mad at me.

I just told him, that last night I hung out with some gangsters.
& I got kinda tipsy
& he didnt say anything.
I feel like he doesnt care or something like that.
im use to guys being like so over protective & hes not like that in any way.
he says things like everything is just whatevers to him.
like "oh yeah ? cool"

He could be scared that stepping up to the plate could cause him to lose you, so he'll sit back and hope for the best.

Well then sweetie if I were you I would dump his a$$ I mean when you have a boyfriend you want to be protected & cared about not neglected try talking to him about it & ask him if somethings wrong also try showing him that you care about him & see what comes out of that & sweetie your gorgous so you probably could do so much better well keep me updated =)

Irene

like he calls me & only talks for about 5 minutes
& tries to put an excuse like "oh well. ill let yu go so yu can do what yu were doing"
when I said I wasent doing anything.
it isent working out.
hes not even worth it at all hes the one on my display pic in the right.

Then kick that d!ck to the curb if your not happy!

I cant say that though because I get like that at times, I'm WAY too laid back and normally just don't care about ANYTHING going on around me. But I would always talk on the phone if a girlfriend called me. Could be a lost in interest or he's like me, too damn laid back. If he wont even talk to you then its a problem with someone losing interest, that's my 2cents.

yeah like I tried to make it work...
not really.. but he should have.
like I WANTED things to work out but I guess things didnt.
I was single for 8 months and it all went down the drain cause of him.
I just noticed I was made to be single.

Dont worry about that, I've been single for about a year and a half, I got tired of caring for people that dont care for me. Not going to be much different in college in a few months, but ima give that a shot :P

Maybe he's scared you'll get mad at him if he says something about it.

Probably don't want to put himself out there and seem all concerned cus a lot of guys don't want to act sprung just like how girls play hard to get

Probably don't want to put himself out there and seem all concerned cus a lot of guys don't want to act sprung just like how girls play hard to get

Um, maybe he just respects the fact that you can make your own decisions? You're a big girl, and if you want to act irresponsibly and get drunk with other guys, knowing full well you might jeopardize your relationship, you should be able to handle yourself. It's possible that he realizes this, and doesn't want to stop you from having what you consider a "good time."

It seems like you're doing bad things intentionally to see how he'll react. You're the one behaving badly, not him.

Another thing--you say he only wants to talk to you for about five minutes on the phone. It's possible he doesn't like to talk on the phone, and it's possible he just doesn't want to talk to you because YOU treat HIM badly. Why would someone want a girlfriend who thinks it's ok to just get drunk with random men, and then get angry that he's handling it like an adult?