My boyfriend and I want to have sex but we also want to wait

This morning around 2am I snuck-out with my boyfriend and we were doing some heavy making-out and we came really close to having sex in my backyard. We both want to wait until we're married to have sex though (not exactly for religious reasons but just because we think that it'd be smarter) but I don't think that we're going to make it for 4 more years when we can get married. What should I do? (just so you know I'm 13 almost going to be 14 in June and my boyfriend is 14 now)

you guys should WAIT! both of you are WAY TO YOUNG..
maybe wait a year or 2
I lost mine at 15 and that was STILL to yong..
just make sure you 2 have the responsibility like an adult to act like one (sex)
tell him to wait..and if he pressures you into it hes NOT worth it!!
if he is willing to wait for you then.just WAIT..
just make out and have fun! your young still dont be in such a hurry to grow up!!
trust me im 17 (not much older then you) and I THREW my life away and
SEX was just the start

Its all about self control. Hormones are raging at this age, but it doesnt mean that sex is the answer. Sex has serious consequences, and your both way too young to comprehend that in order for sex to be a good thing, you need two people who are mature enough to really love and trust each other. Even though you may feel turned on or horny, it doesn’t mean you are ready to have sex. You aren’t. There is a lot more to having a good sexual experience than just feeling desire or being curious about what sex might feel like. It is really, really important to also have a healthy and trusting relationship with a partner before you have any kind sexual experience.

It is also important to understand all the good things and bad things that can result from having sex. Sex is just one of many ways to share intimacy with a partner and it has the most serious consequences, like getting pregnant or getting a sexually transmitted disease.

Just so that you guys know my boyfriend and I love each other very much (and I mean that). We've both been through a lot of stuff in our lives as short as they may be. We both had to grow up a little faster with the situations that we've been under. We're a lot more mature than a lot of people our age because of that. I feel completely comfortable around him, and we tell each other everything (and I mean everything whether the other really wants to know it or not). I do understand however that we should wait because of the consequences of sex. Thanks though.

Dear lonelyinlove13,
First of all the chances of him being your husband is not very likely. You will date many before you get married and should. This is why you don't have sex with every guy you date, even if you think you'll marry him because chances are you won't especially at your age. Women are waiting much longer to get married, they want a good education and a good career because they deserve it. This will also set a good example to children if you decide to have them. So even if you feel this boy is the one, the odds are against it. So definitely do not give in to these urges it will be something you regret for the rest of your life.
Sue...good luck

I THINK you BOTH NEED TO WAIT
BECAUSE you BOTH ARE YOUNG
SEX IS BEAUTIFUL BUT IN ITS TIME