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How can I make this as easy as possible?

Asked by indianprincess1 12 months ago, 1 answer.

My boyfriend just popped the question and I want to take him home to my very strict mom, how can I do so without making the situation any more difficult than it already is?

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In your face.. Answered by starryeyedsurprise on Aug 01, 2007, 08:11PM
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I have had the same issue. Explain the situation to your boyfriend and warn him in advance that she is very strict. My parents have thrown 100 questions at every guy I've brought home. I've given all of them the heads up. You may want to talk to your mother about him too prior to bringing him home. A simple phone call should do. Bring up all of his good points, and explain what makes him a great boyfriend. Explain how you met and how long you've been together...yada yada. You should give her the heads up so she can be prepared to meet him and be able to initiate a conversation based on what she knows about him. Maybe you should all go out to dinner and then announce the news. She won't want to make a scene at a restaurant, right? She may be weary at first...but the longer he is around..she should get used to him. Ultimately, she will just want you to be happy. The only way she will completely dislike him is if he gives her a reason, so he should be as polite and courteous as possible. He should also try to initiate a conversation with her. This still sort of break the ice and a few awkward moments. If he popped the question and you accepted, there's really nothing she can do to change your mind. You are an adult. He is an adult. It is your life, not hers. If you are pleased with him, your mom's opinions should take a back seat. You are living your own life, you're not living life through her expectations. Your apprehension is natural though as we all want to make our parents proud. Hope these suggestions help!

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