My boyfriend keeps pressuring me

My boyfriend keeps pressering me so much to "do" things. I really don't want to, but he always makes me feel so bad cause he like says I am the captain of the football team and I am still a virgin. well it doesnt really make me feel bad but I don't know. and then he like yells at me sometimes. I am still a virgin, I don;t know why I cant just brake up with him he has helped me threw so much and now I feel obligated to help him but I don't want to have no selfrespect help pleasee.
thanks xx Lil

Dump him. He'll either end up dumping you or raping you. DUMP HIM.

I'd say break up with him. You should never be pressured into doing anything. He might be using you. Just be careful.

Well if it was me I would first tell him how I felt about it...And I mean you shouldnt do any thing that you will regret later. "YOUR" self respect and "YOU" are what is most important im still a virgin 2 and I tell every guy that I talk to "if your not going to be my last, than it doesnt make sense 4 you to be my first"...dont ever let and e 1 pressure you to do sumthing that you dont want 2 because in the end they will have got what they wantd while in the end your the 1 who doesnt..

~* JAZz*~

He does NOT love you. Love is respect, and he clearly isnt respecting you. Its all about what HE wants, not about your feelings. Women tend to forgive, to make things work, to want to please. These are great traits in some circumstances. They are not great qualities if it means you are feeling controlled by your partner.

You deserve a healthy relationship filled with respect, equality, support, and love. You are not a child or servant!!

Here is something to seriously think about:

Benefits of Abstinence
~Peace of mind in your life and future relationships, and marriage.
~More self-respect and more respect for each other, and respected by other people.
~Always remember, in a healthy relationship, respect precedes love. And premarital sex only throws away your self respect and your partner's.
~You enter marriage with a more positive outlook and without carrying emotional baggage.
~Personal freedom for both of you and your (future) marriage partner.
~Significantly better chance in having more satisfying and more stable marriage.
~Longer lasting relationship. Premarital sex surprisingly breaks up more dating couples than any other factor.
~No comparing or being compared sexually in marriage.
~No worries about pregnancy and STDs.
~Less worries about bad reputation.
~It's a fact that persons and couples who have premarital sex are more likely to have extramarital affairs as well.
~Premarital sex often fools a person into marrying someone who really isn't right for them.
~You don't have to put yourself under someone else's mercy not to reject you. It's still a fact, that the more "experienced" guys and girls are generally less desirable and less respected as dating or marriage partners.
~Realize there is a 98 percent chance you will never marry the person you date in high school, so it is always better to keep yourself pure for the right person, that is your future wife or husband.

To help him? Having sex will help him? You mean to help his reputation... If you dont want to have sex and he's pressuring you, he isnt worth it... He obviously cares more about himself than you, and do you really want to sleep with someone who doesnt care about you?

If he has some needs "to do things", what is understandable, but you feel aversion to do, then you should tell him that you two will and can be the same good partners till now, but you do not mind if he "does that things" with other girls. Because you are not ready for that YET. But this will change by the time.