My boyfreinds mom is literally getting us married!!

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now were very much in love and everything was perfect untill 3 months ago when I found out I was pregnant, my family and seans family (sean is my boyfreind) have been extremley supportive and now that the initial shock has worn off and every ones okay with my pregnancy seans mom has taken over and has now decided that she wants us to get married because she thinks its the best thing to do for the baby,my mom really doesnt want me rushing in to marriage and neither do I and I think sean is a little put off aswell but his over powering mom is still going ahead with plans shes even organised a wedding planner which is really starting to scare me!! we have all tried to talk to her but she just wont listen shes so stoked about wanting us to get married that she cant even hear us say no! I feel like giving up!!! any advice given would really help,thanks xxx

honey I honestly think you should just take his mom aside sit her down and you should both just tell her how you feel yes she might be upset but dont delay it any further because it will only make things worse and harder to say,just explain that you apperciate her effort but you both arent ready to commit yet and marriage is a big thing tell her you would rather wait untill yous were both fully ready she should understand! the best of luck! xxx

Marriage is something you don't want to be forced into. HE should be the one proposing when he IS READY -NOT HIS MOM.

She cannot force you two to get married. It is ultimately yours and his choice.

Walk up to her and tell her the engagement is off and you're moving to Antartica. That'll get the point across.

well, she can't really force you to actually get married it is your choice I mean she can't make you sign the papers and all that stuff so just tell her what YOU think and hopefully she will take it well and if she don't tell her she can arrange when you think it is the right time !!!