My boyfriend wants to have sex

I've known my boyfriend for 4 years but we jux started dating. He's a nice guy and everything but he surprised me by wanting to get down and dirty and the problem is, he said that we're not officially dating yet but then he starts talking about wanting to touch my curves and going to a motel for our first date. Well the motel thing he says he was joking but I had a feeling he actually want to. Should I take things slow with him?

duh you should take things slow. it sounds like he just likes you for your body. unless you want to stay with a pig, I suggest you tell him to gain some self-restraint and quit being such a horndog. don't let him use you.

Hes your boyfriend but your not officially dating? Your either dating someone or you aren't, theres no in between. He sounds really creepy, I don't think you should be involved with him.

if you are smart you willtake it slow
tell that horndog to stop being a perverted pig for once and respect you
im sure you deserve the respect

Yea he doesn't sound like good news at all...

Be careful a good guy wouldn't rush you into things like that!

This guy doesnt like you...he doesnt even care about you, because if he did, he wouldnt be asking to get sexual already! That is a HUGE red flag, that he only wants sex! He isnt worth wasting anymore time on. Your going to regret it if you do give this horndog what he wants. When a guy truly respects a girl, he would NEVER act the way this clod is acting. , Its obvious that he isnt looking for a long time commitment, only short term fun!

hes an as*h*le id want sex too at first but I wouldnt say it too her id wait like every other man

Well...the whole thing about the motel for the first date seems kinda stupid to me.
Don't do anything you don't want to do. Don't do anything if you feel pressured. Sometimes when people are pressured, we do stupid stuff.
There was this guy I was hangin out with for a while and all he talked about was about having sex in the back of his car constantly. Keep in mind, I've never had sex before nor even kissed anyone so why would I do that? I knew he wanted to do it, so I never went out with him again. I was pressured and almost made a big mistake.
If you love him enough then think it through and whatever choice you come up with is your choice. I'd say don't rush, take it s-l-o-w. If he likes you enough, he'll wait, but if he just wants to rush things, then trust me, he's not worth your time.

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hey you really really should think I think that he just wants sex