My boyfriend's small size package.

Hi..Im currently living with my boyfriend. We have been together for 1 year. I love him with all my heart but theres something that im not really happy with, its when we are doing intimate stuffs. His package isnt what I expected . its a little bit to...

small. Compared to my ex-boyfriend, my ex-boyfriend's is much bigger in size.

For my boyfriend now, the funny thing is, his package only becomes bigger only in the morning when he wakes up.That is the kind of size I want him to have when we are doing it.

Why is that? And also how can I help him to get a bigger in that area?

I am a girl who has had boyfriends that ranged from four inches to nine inches. To me it really doesn't matter about the size. Its the whole picture here, from making me laugh, genuinely caring, caressing, foreplay and then intercourse. I can honestly say the sex from my boyfriend with four inches was much better than my ex with nine. He seemed to pay more attention and really wanted to please me and he was great at oral sex, etc. When we had sex he would not just go like a rabbit. He would use slow rythmic motions and change it up and really be original. He would drive me crazy sometimes. You girls know what I am talking about a real toe curler. He would be romantic and spontaneous at the sametime. With my ex with nine inches he just wanted to stuff it in me and go to town like a jackhammer. I have had more trouble with the larger sized penis than the smaller. I am a petite to small girl and there are certain positions I just can't do with a guy with a huge penis that I really enjoy with someone of modest size. Don't get me started on giving a large dick a blowjob it is painful and makes me gag half the time especially when the guy is pulling the back of your head towards him. I would much rather suck a penis that doesn't give me a sore jaw in two minutes or makes me gag.

The same thing applies to guys concerning the size issue. My breasts are not huge, they are about average or maybe even smaller than average. Most of the guys I have dated don't really care about breast size so why should I care about penis size.

As far as helping your boyfriend get bigger, outside of surgery it is impossible. I have heard that penis pumps can make it slightly larger temporarily. I think you would ruin your relationship if you suggest to your boyfriend to get a penis pump. Did he ever ask you to get a breast enlargement? You seem shallow if having a big dick is all you really care about in a guy. I think your doomed to lead a unsatisfied life based on that criteria. Instead of increasing size maybe you should try more foreplay, toys or roleplaying to spice things up in the bedroom.

In the morning? cause all guys are erected when waking up?
well are you sure you are making him horny enough so his package will turn like in the morning?

Maybe he's new at sex and he needs some motivation to get hornier than he usually is. Usually if he is extremely aroused, his penis will be extremely hard.

Talk to him about this, im sure you love him and care about him but sex is important in a relationship to a point anyways it doesnt make a relationship but both should be happy. There are things you can do to improve his size but talk to him about it. At the end of the day if he loves you he'll want you make you happy

He's not new at sex, we had done lots of times and every time I tried to make hornier each time we do it. I've done everything he ask from me. Dressing up, wearing lingerie even foreplay. But it always the same.

Its not that I love him guys for the size of their d*ck but for myself a girl, I too want to feel sexually sastify. Real fact is that girls love having sex with guys with big d*ick. And thats true to me.

Sometime I feel like calling my ex-boyfriend just to satisfy my sexual needs. I know thats wrong thats why I didn't do it. I dont want to tell him about this matter because I dont want to him to get embarrassed.

Real fact is that girls love having sex with guys with big d*ick.

Sorry, not a fact, more of a unsupported media-saturated claim. They love a man who can use his dick well despite of his size. I don't know about this whole 'Guys with big dicks are better' mumbo jumbo, as long as they're at least the average size, when what's the big deal?

When I asked Is he new at sex?, I didn't ask if he's new at sex with you, I'm asking if he's generally new at sex. How many sexual partners has he had before you? If he's been with a couple and has a not-so hard stiffie with you, it may be a product of some subconscious insecurity with you. Maybe he thinks that he's not good enough for you, and somehow he's read your mind that you think that he really is isn't good enough for you.

I'm pretty sure your guy just needs to practice his moves to see what works out better for you. Use certain positions like being in a missionary position and propping your legs up over his shoulders so that he feels bigger inside you along with a deeper penetration. He will also feel his penis squeezed in that position and most guys love that and can get even harder from it.

Do you Kegel exercises. Tightening your pelvic muscles help. Also, squeeze his penis in intervals while he's inside you, it could help get him harder too.

You seem so shallow. I couldn't care less about the size of my boyfriend's penis aslong as I loved him.

it is immensly important that you are satsified in every aspect of your relationship so you wont set yourself up to want to go a-straying. I say that you either get him some type of penis enhancing med or pumps or do some vagina tightening excercising. (Kind of like squeezing your buttcheeks together but push it forward so your vagina is tightening (if you put your finger in your vagina you wil be able to feel if you are doing it right.) and hold this for 60 second and release. Do this about 20 times daily for a week and dont have sex and you should feel a slight improvement. Note: some people say if you douche consistently for a month your vagina will be as tight as your first time. I wouldnt do it because frequent doucheing can cause an upset in ph balance levels and cause yeast infections, bacterial infections, uti and even tss but some people swear to it.

woahhh, I'm with you on this one.

I would have to say im with my boyfriend for about a year now and his penis is smaller than my ex boyfriends. It is a problem for me I sometimes avoid sex of use the(on my period excuse)but its weird I love him and I want to be able to work threw it. Any advice?

If you love him you shouldn't let something like this get in the way. You can have more oral sex and longer foreplay. You can try it doggystyle or wrap your legs around his shoulders, these positions allow for deeper penetration.

Ehe, just asking, isn't it sinful for Muslims (judging from your display picture) to do 'it' before marriage?

guraishavengeance, you are an idiot. isn't it sinful of many faiths (christianity, judaism, etc) to have sex before marriage? would you ask this of someone who looked christian or jewish? grow up.

if you love him it shouldn't matter a dick is a dick

ii dontt knoww muchh abitt guyss consideringg im only 14 burtt ii know quite abitt.. and guys have morning glory on a morning which is like a mornin erection which describes as yuh say his package getss bigger.. nn itt shouldd bee likee thatt alsoo when yuhh are havingg sex unless hee is not fully aroused.. to get yurh boyfriend fully aroused yuh shud do more foreplay.. foreplay is a fun experience and is a good way to get yuh and yurh partner fully aroused.. =] also thee sizee shudntt really matter... yuh should never ever compare yurh current boyfriend.. to yurh previous cause that is whenn thinkss start too go wrongg... and the bigger it iss.. the moree itt hurtss.. a gurdd sizee wouldd be around 6 to 7 inch.. then it doesnt hurt too muchh and itt is enjoyable... nn there iss absolutely nothing except viagra that would increase yurh boyfriends package.. .. ii hopee ivee helped.. my friends seem to think im a expertt its justt what my mum has told me beforee.. she is more like my best friend than a mum .. =]

y do you care?because I red in Cosmopolitan that sumtimes small p*nises give bigger orgasms.

CHECK HER PROFILE PEOPLE. She says she is engaged to marry someone, then suddenly she will be asking about dating girls, or giving blowjobs to her boss.

WTF?

good.luck...if he doesnt know how to position yur body than he gotta go...

if you love him, and yourself...rather than cheating on him, just invest in a coc pump.

There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend's equipment and nothing needs to be done about it. Either this problem is of your own making or God is incompetent. While it's true that his penis doesn't get you off, your last boyfriend's probably didn't either, and the odds are no penis ever will, no matter its dimensions or the skill with which it is wielded. Most women will not reach orgasm through sexual intercourse no matter how it's done. It is the equivalent of trying to get a man off by playing only with his balls while ignoring his penis entirely.

It is your duty as a lover to guarantee your lover's success at being your lover, and you defeat that entirely by questioning the adequacy of his equipment. You already know this, really, which is why you faked all of those orgasms. But don't worry, your secret's are safe with me.

I think it's a pretty good indication that he's on the gay side. Have you suggested that he maybe goes to bed with another guy, to see how that works. I'll make that little tool stiffen right up... a guy knows how to stimulate another guy - really. Just give him the freedom to explore what makes him feel good.