Does my boyfriend hate me?

I think my boyfriend hates me , he's always putting me down , for example , whatever I wear he says I look ugly in it and he yells at me if I stand up for myself or if I tell him " well , I like it " , I've tried dumping him , but he made me promise not to leave him and he said if I did he'd die of a broken heart and whenever I try to walk away from him , he'll spin grab my shoulder , spin me around and make me listen to him yelling at me , but at the end of the day he calls me and tells me he's sorry and he loves me ,and I love him , but I'm sick and tired of this what do I do ?

>I think my boyfriend hates me , he's always putting me down , for example , whatever I >wear he says I look ugly in it and he yells at me

-um, thats really not good. at that point without reading the rest my opinion was to leave him right thenand there.

I've tried dumping him , but he made me promise not to leave him and he said if I did he'd die of a broken heart and whenever I try to walk away from him , he'll spin grab my shoulder , spin me around and make me listen to him yelling at me

-oh please, if YOU want to break but because YOU'RE not happy with how hes treating YOU, YOU are entitled to break up with him. why should you be upset when he yells at you and him not care..?

the day he calls me and tells me he's sorry and he loves me ,and I love him , but I'm sick and tired of this what do I do ?

-have you tried talking about it to him? if you didnt, you should try it. sit him down and tell him exactly what youwrote. but if you have and its persistant, do whats best for you.

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You sound more like his little puppy dog, then his girlfriend! If a guy treats you like crap and suddenly one day, he sweet talks you and later on that night, "hits it and runs," and then the next day, you are being treated lower than a dog in the streets, sad to say, it's your own fault. You are letting him know that he can mistreat you, because you do NOTHING to stop him! I cant believe girls know that their relationship is bad, yet they cant seem to end it! It only goes to show shehas NO self respect, and lacks confidence.

If women want more out of a relationship than to be convenient, they have to start recognizing when someone is treating them with less care, consideration, and respect than they deserve. State your expectations from the beginning and if the guy in question cannot live up to that, then find another who can and will. Don’t make yourself miserably unhappy by trying to figure out why some guy treats you like dirt! The guy just isn’t the one for you and you shouldn’t waste time chasing Mr. Wrong when you could be out there meeting Mr. Right!

dump him

dump his srry @$$!

Why is he even your boyfriend?

The trick is: you dump him... and you DON'T take him back.

GIRL DUMP THAT MOFO BECAUSE LATER THAT FU IS going to END UP KILLIN YOUR BEHIND

Sorry but that guy sounds like bad news.

He is bad news. You honestly fell for the "die of a broken heart" nonsense? Come on girl! He clearly has no respect for you, no guy in his right mind (even if not dating you) would say something that mean. He wants to know that you're around when he wants you, and when he doesn't want you.. he thinks he can treat you like shi*t and get away with it. The whole die of a broken heart thing is a gimmick.. he says that so that you won't leave him, so you're still around when he wants, like I said.

Here's what you do, you dump him.. and you stay away! You do NOT get back together with him. Go be with a guy who says you look beautiful in that shirt, or whatever. Most of all, be with a guy who respects you. If you keep falling for these jerks, then those are the only kind of guys you're going to get. Set your standards, do that, and you'll get some really great guys in your life.