My boyfriend got his dick pierced! please read and help!

Hi im 14 and my boyfriend is 16. I really want tto go further and so does he and all. I've always wanted to wait till marrige, but him... hes just so different from any other guy I've been with. I really think hes the one for me. I understand that we are...

kinda young but you never know we ould be the one out of a million... I really love him, and we have decided that we will move further when we are BOTH ready.. ya, well he got his dick pierced and all, im kinda afraid that hes going to what to see what it would be like with it pierced, and im going to go see him tomorrow, and I really care about him more then anything and I just dont know. please, give me some ideas to do before he wants to go all the way to sex, just till I can get my mind straight! I really think im ready for it too. but I just dont get how they can get their dick pierced. lol can someone please explain that to me to! lol -love always-
sweetbabygurl05

couple of words for you. HIV, AIDS, unwanted pregancies.
Think about it long and hard. Your 14. You are not ready for this. Trust me I was 16 the first time and I wasn#039;t ready. If he#039;s true to you and yall are meant to be together he will wait. Don#039;t use condoms as a fall back because he is periced. It will rip a condom very quickly. You should be true to yourself and wait. You want to wait for marriage and you should. It can ruin a relationship faster than anything. If you need to talk more email me at Fun mail me. I#039;m not as old as my screen name lets on.
granny1

ok thanx, but he can take it out though. Im just kinda insecure of everything right now. and hes the onl person i can trust, out of my mom my friends, and him. i really want him to be my first, and all. i just dont know, i love him and he loves me. i just think like they said in one of these advice things a guy will go as far as a gurl will let him, im just scared to be alone with him in a away, bc when im with him everything that has went through my head and all just disappears when he holds me in his arms, im afraid that i wont have the guts to stand up and say no. i luv him a whole lot. i have family problems, my dads abuses me, hes an acholic, and hes the only guy i can trust. i just fell like no one else loves me and i dont know if i can stand up and say no, i know he will understand, but weve only been together for about 3 months, i know thats soon. but ive been in this position b4 with my ex and he wuz 17 at the time, and we were together for about 2 weeks and i just wuz not gonna go for 2 weeks. i felt nothing between us. but with this guy, its just like when we r together its really hard to seperate us. everytime my mom gets mad at me, she tries to make me break up with him. and i just couldnt handle that he helps me he relieves my stress, when im with him, even when i hear his voice, he hates my dad, bc of he knows what my dad has done to me and all. but if anyone has any more advice plz write it on here or sumthin, im gonna get a new email and ill put it on here next time! kk! thanx so much! luv lotz! sweetbabygurl05

well granny1 great advice to a 14 year old... its called first love!!! yeah theres AIDS and HIV around.thats why its called getting tested and hopefully staying with one person for a while before having sex.. but do you really think kids are going to listen... well i agree with the fact you should wait till ur married... but if you think your ready...before you do get tested and have him get tested... if you respect urself and respect him... but if you second questioning this?? then you really should talk to him about this.... don#039;t make stupid mistakes!! only you!!!!! can make up ur mind!!!!

YOU SHOULD KNOW WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT SO DONT DO IT JUST CAUSE HE WANTS TO

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well girl you are stupid if you fuick him and he has a pireceing pericing causes infections and maty cause STDS and you do not wants those at 14 you shouldn't even thinking about sex your head should be in the books

You are ready at 16 lol not before