My boyfriend and I really want eachother...we just dont know if the other is ready yet

ok,im young...to most of you 30 yr olds.....REALLY young. and my boyfriend and I have been going 4 like 10mon. I love him he loves me...bla bla bla.....but all we've done is french and grab eachothers ass. I want to go farther and I think he does to because we have talked about it and I know I REALLY want to go there...not sex....but you know blow jod and crap. how do I tell him im ready and ask him if he is? do I just do it? or should I ask or what? im so cunfuzzled! please help me!

how old are you? dont have sex if you arent ready for it... and I guess if you want to go further than what your doing now just talk to him and tell him you want to go further...