My best mate may have pashed my ex

My mate james is a emo ans so am I but we just had a huge fight we sorted it out the other day but just the other day he said are you invited to taylas party.tayla is my x girl friend my first serious one and she took my kissing virginity and my mate saud lets text her to find out and she I wasent invited not cause she hates me cause her friend who I went out with to get back at tayla was going and she really licked me we went out for like 5 months and I didnt make tayla upset so dumped her now she spreads rumors that I raped her and I didnt my mate went ape s@#t at her for it.back on track with the story with my mate he said I havent got anything to give her so im going to pash her for 10 seconds my mate has a girl friend he started going out with while I was with tayla and afyter we broke up they keept going out its been a year since then anyway my mate girlfreind said he could pash tayla and I was gutted I dont know if I happend or not but if it did what shpuld I do I want to be his friend but will this dammage our relationship.

.p.s.we're not gay together

1. Learn to use the full stop (period). Please try to type in a few more sentences than a paragraph made of a couple of sentences. It looks like you're rambling, and you probably are.

2. I honestly only understand a small fraction of your typing, but yes it's not cool for mates to go out with your ex's. There is always an unspoken code for good mates not to do that because it will ruin their relationship. The only thing you can do about it is to tell your mate how you feel about it (e.g. you're uncomfortable about him going after your ex, and you think it is ruining your friendship). If he still goes after her, it's his choice and you can't do anything about it. You can still be friends with him if you want, but I think your mate will understand that you wont trust him as much any longer.

umm ask your ex and and try to be friends with her...it's the least you can do.
we cant tell you if he did or not only you can find that out...maybe you should ask your friend if he did and tell him not to becuase you still have feeling for her.
if he's a real friend he would understand that.
what your friends girlfriend said is just wrong and she obviosuly doesnt love him becuase he'd let her sleep with another girl.
if you wernt there when she said it then maybe she never did and he was just trying to make you jelouse...talk to all of them and see what they all say.
good luck.