What if my best friend stole the love of my life?

I had a best friend and I told her I fancied this guy. she told me she fancied someone else at school. Basically the guy I fancied went to an after skl maths class and my best friend was there too. She told me he had been flirting with her and she flirted back but she said that she did not like him in that way. That night I told this guy that I fancied him and he said that he did not feel the same way as he just split up with his ex.. They started messaging each other on bebo and flirting together. and suddenly 2 months later they got together. but 2 weeks before she told one of my otrher friends that she would never go out with him as she did not want to hurt me, however she told the "popular" girls in my skl that she had liked him for ages. She then shagged him after 5 weeks ( her first boyfriend btw) and started blagging in my face. there still together after 6 months but hes leaving in 4 months back to norway where he comes from. I stil like him just as much as I did 8 months ago. shall I tell him before he leaves?

No, you should just forget about him and find another guy to like. You already told him that you liked him once when he didn't have a g/f and he rejected you, but now he does and it sounds serious, I wouldn't put myself through that again! Just because you like him, doesn't mean you can claim him, he likes your friend and you won't be able to change his mind about that. Is that girl still your best friend?

thanks, no way since she went out wid him we havnt been friemnds since, it was like she chose him over me.

Good deal, then just forget about them and move on! It'll be hard, but in a few months you'll be like, "Josh and Sarah who!", or whatever their names are! lol! Did I get them right? I've been trying to be psychic lately!

If he rejected someone as pretty as you, he's not worth it hun.

Well, I actually am going through something similar! Except for the Norway thing. Now, if you really feel for this guy, tell him! If you feel like you'll always regret not telling, go ahead. There's no harm in saying how you feel, as long as you're not forcing them to like you back. I've also liked this guy since 3rd grade mind you and a girl whom I USED to call 'bff' stole him in 6th grade aka the grade I'M in now. (btw she isn’t my friend and never will be again because knowing her she'll just repeat it. the worst villains start young you see) so go on and tell, or bottle it up. (But I wouldn't say bottling it up is good because I did that with my guy and now I'm practically emo

I have an old saying "Love them enough to let them go and be happy with someone that is their match." so you can find someone who will love you as much as you love them...

some men are meant to just pass us by
some men are meant to just be friends
some men are meant to stay for a while
some men are meant to be there forever
some men you may wish for but really don't want
them when you get them...

then some men are meant to be with us from the moment we met.