My best friend hates me!

kay, here is what happened. I was talkin wiv my friend, and sheKNOWS I hate the grunger fasion, so she starts talkin about how cool it is. I get narked, and I say I think the chains people wear from their jeans look dum. she says its cool, and her mum thinks it is to. so I open my mouth and say her mum is sad.
I didnt realise she was upset as I didnt see her for the next few days. when I realised, I IMMEDIATELY said I was sorry, and it had been a dum comment. next day, she tells everyone, and says, its okay, but if she ever does it again, I will not be friends wiv her. then she refuses to talk to me, instead bitchin about me in my friends ear and all I can do is watch
I get so flippin annoyed at this, that I e-mail my friend, and say how annoyed I am at my friend.she e-mails bac sayin how bitchy I am. all my friends turn against me.
to show her how truley sorry I am(the one I was horrible to) I make her a present, which took me 3 days.
few weeks later, someone cums up to me and says, what why are you bein so mean to (my friends name) soon complete strangers are comin up to me and sayin are you the one who bullied(her name) my other friends tell me how much she talks about me, sayin the most HORRIBLE thins. they show me e-mails. she refuses to talk to me. I eventually cant bear it anymore. I ring her before christmas 2004. we talk, and WE both cry a little.
next day im told she is less annoyed at me
BUT even though she doesnt b*tch about me, we cant talk-when I try to talk to her, we either have an arguement(because of a TINY little detail I got rong) or she wont answer. but she will be perfectly happy wiv what other people say.I really hate her now, because I feel that her bitchin has ruined my rep at school-people still ask me what happened-what I did. shall I give up on ever becomin friends wiv her?
please! I need to know! what wood you do? what do you think I shood do?

My Best friend hates me too. Well see what happend was I was soppose to stay the night at her house but I wanted to go hang out with this guy I REALLY like and she didnt so I just went with out her then my mom found me and I got in trouble because I wasnt with her. And latter I found out she didnt want to go because she wanted to hang out with someone else and we have bben in a big fight ever since. 2 weeks. What should I do?

don't panic I had this happen to me before if she doing this to you she is not your reel friend!!! and for everyone else when they find out what really happend they will be saying all that crap 2 her but don't be enemy's with her but don't be her friend!!!GOOD LUCK

My best friend hates me and I really dont like it because I am going up into year 8 in a week and I really need someone to stand by me because going up into a new year can be stressfull. But she wont even talk to me. It all started over a big roul that we had on msn and now she just wont forgive and forget I have sent her loads of email on msn and bebo but she wont reply and if she does reply then she will just say that she isnt going to say what she thinks and she isnt going to tlk to me. But I want her to and I want to be her best friend because at a time like this I need one!!!

my bestfriend hates me too!
I aparently insulted her by asking her to do me a favor!
she said no and didnt do it so sad its ok and I did it!
and aparently I was "bossing her around"
now shes turing all my friends agaisnt me.
WHAT DO I DO?!