My best friend has a new bestfriend..how can I get her back

my best friend is jane and we have a friend named gayle. jane and I have been best friends for maybe 3 years and gayle has been our friend since last summer. recently, though, I've been noticing that gayles been getting more attention thatn me. before jane I didnt really have friends that I hung out with, so you can probabley see how this is frustrating for me. gayle has other freinds but actually she has been ignoring her other best friend who is my good friend too, for jane. what im trying to say basically is that I feel like gayle is stealing my best friend and ditching her old best friend. I still want to be friends with jane, but I want to tell her what I've been noticing about kelsea, gayles old boyfriend. I want to kow what to do so I can get my friend back and for kelsea and gayle to be friends again too. not so she can be horrored by gayle bc really, shes a nice girl, but bc they had been friends since babies and kelsea is feeling really hurt by it and me too.

Ok yah know you can be bestfriend with gayles old bestfriend it will make both VERY JEALOUS And I mean jealous

if your best friend dumps you, your not alone. I had a best friend last year who I realy got along with. we were always hanging out. and then I left for a vacation during the summer. she started hanging out with one of our other frineds. they are now best friends and I found new friends. my old boyfriend I can see now is really mean and anoying. they fight a lot and they just had a realy big one. our friend morgan called her and said if you ever want to be friends with me again you will dujmp your boyfriend and get him to go out with me. if your being dumped, find new and better friends.

The same thing happend to me, it's real common for girls. Me and my best friend Hollie met when we were in nappys. We grew up together promising we would never find other best friends. But 8 months ago a nice girl called Bathany came to our school from portsmouth. Hollie wanted to be friends with her. I decided to aswell. At first Bethany was OK. Then after a while Hollie made lil songs with bethany like I used to do with hollie, they had a lot of sleep overs like me and hollie. THEN bethany stole my boyfriend and didnt care how I felt about it. When it came to my birthday ( january 8th ) I wanted to take hollie to my party but my mum said I had to bring Bethany too because it would be unfair. So when I did bethany and hollie kept hiding from me and getting together and telling lies about ME! I got real angry at bethany and orderd her to back off my bff and move back to portsmouth. Hollie said that she had moved on and that she didnt care how I felt about losing her. As a birthday prezzy Hollie gave me a pen. pencil. ruler, and a notebook for about £2.00. I got realy annoyed and bathany gave me a stupid cat in a purple push car along with a shirt she didnt want anymore. when it was bethanys birthday hollie gave her a real silver and real gold fairy orament!!! Talk about getting the other end of the stick...I bought bethany a mix and match pen, bag and braclet, real silver. Hollies birthday led to bethany buying her somthing I asked for. over £18.00! I gave hollie a silver heart watch and a nice lil piggy bank. She allready had the piggybank and watch and never told be because she ''couldnt be botherd''

I told hollie I was glad that bethany was moving again and she told bethany I said that and they both turned on me, got others to totaly hate me and become bbfs ''forever''. When she finaly moved I was glad and I said to hollie just to forget all about her and we can go back to normal again. All I heard back was ''NO, she's my bestest buddy yer know? I'm not going to ferget about her and if you are thinking I am your way wrong''
On her myspace hp I found her pass for the account BratzPPups, and yeah you can have the pass, its bottom, yeah I know gay pass aint it? Well anyway I messed it up good, taking away all her pics, good backgrounds, and all that stuff. And yah know what?! I Blamed it on bethany..( hehe ) But then she said that her other friend katie musta done it. Even though she's far away hollie and her still pass lies, have sleepovers and make stupid sissy songs. After all I've done for hollie she treats me with this?! And right now...they are having a sleepover at bethanys house....and they both didnt tell me about it.

So for you the best thing to do is come out clean to them both and make them listen, say how you feel and tell gayle that you want to be friends with her but that you want her to back off your best friend, It's slowly but surely working for me. I hope it can for u.

what I think is that you should either right jane a letter sayin what you have in ure moind and what you yhink is going on with that other girls bestfriend or just talk to her about it in person