My b/f asked me to have sex with him

Today I was at college, spending time with my boyfriend. Out of the blues, he just abruptly asked me what I think about sex? I answered 'As an open minded person I don't think premarital sex is bad.' He then asked me if I would give him the opportunity...

to make love to me...I was shocked.This is the real situation: Since I started going out with him, he has always been speaking so saintly so innocent. The week after we started going out, my friends were talking about sex stuff and then he moved from there. Later he told me ' I don' t like to speak about those stuffs.' So since then I had the concept that he is so innocent. Both of us are 18 years old... he has had sex many times but he hasn't told me about that directly. I have had sex with 2 guys already but of course my present boyfriend doesn't know, he thinks I am a virgin. I have always behaved like I am innocent and all chaste. What should I do now? I had planned to stop having sex but now that he asked me I felt this temptation. Should I have sex with him?????

How long have u two been going out? I think its kind of weird for him to just come out and say it. If you don't want to have sex then dont do it, if he doesn't accept it and gets mad or breaks up with u, you no he really didnt like/love u in the first place, and wouldnt have been worth having sex with. But if u feel that he truely does love u go for it,really up to u.

Im just curious about why you lied to him in the first place about being a virgin? whats the big deal, if you have been with other guys and you truly love your bf then why not.

If you two have had sex before do not behave like little childs. If one of you have not had sex before the other one can help this one to have. For conversation about sex the more open the better...

Sex isnt something that should be planned out or avoided by adults. If U get the opportunity to engage in a sexual activity with your boyfriend then I suggest U take it as long as U do it in a smart protective way meaning use condoms or whatever kinda protection U prefer. As for him 2 ask outta the blue theres nothing wrong with that, he's a healthy (hopefully) 18 year old male thats gonna have sexual desires especially when we has a sexy_latina_girl as a girlfriend.

First of all, stop being a liar and stop playing the innocent. Yes, you should have sex with him (provided that you want that and like him, of course). This is my answer. Stop being afraid of what others might think about your actions and past. Admit it openly. It's a lot nicer than being a hypocrite.