My 17 yr old boyfriend wants me to give him a bj and im 13! help

im inexperienced so how do I give him a BJ!!! please dont say your too young or somethin

so I think its to young to have sex of any kind oral or not, but you guys its her choice if she wants to go out with him, me and my neighbor might go out and hes seventeen and im 13, and age is but a number so quit telling her to dump him

Where did you go to school? 17- 14 = 3 years!!
It doesnt matter how old your parents are...they are both adults. Thats a big difference when you are as young as you are. Your inexperienced because your only 13. Hes experienced because hes 17...GET IT?

**we have acctulally known each other since I was 6. so he is not using me** Who cares how long you've known each other? HES USING YOU. If he wasnt, he would NEVER have asked for a bj! He doesnt like you in the right way, and he doesnt care about you in the least. Hes a horny boy who only wants you for one thing. Maybe you need to stop defending him, and listen to the wise advice thats been given to you! You are being a typical naive 13 yr old, who is flattered that a 17 yr old is interested in her, but its for all the WRONG reasons! Its ALL purely physical! He doesnt want you, only what you will do for him as far as pleasure!

guys cant you please tell me!!! and hes not 18 so we cant get in trouble!!! come on ... its my choice. im going to do it anyway so just tell me how so I do a good job.

I read this and noticed the dates of the comments they go back quite a wile. so uve probably already given the guy head anyway and the chances are you wont reed this.

but if your going to do it. do it no one a chatroom will change ya mind and there will always be somone who will dissagree with you. follow ya instict and you will know what to do and if he cares he want care if you dont do it rite the first time!

but honnestley THINK abt it verry carefully before you do it as it cud end up being a regret!

Sweetii I know you dont wanna hear this but your 2 young.
Im 13 and a girl and almost in the same postion as you. Boys keep asking me to give them bjs and rubbish like that but im telling them no. I say no because I've got plenty of time to do all that when im old enough! But at the moment I want to get a good education and dont want stupid boys asking me stupid things all the time. I would tell him no bbe. He is a d*ck who only wants sex. Trust me. Tell him no!!! Please otherwise he will think you will do anything and he will soon ask you for sex.

hi im a 14 yr old guy (g*y) and I seriously like the way you asked the question. I had my first s*x when I was 12 and I take my advice seriously as I know how it feels. see first you start with normal kissing and then you feel the guy's d*ck. it grows harder and harder, then you just hold his d*ck as you would hold a cola can( not too hard). then comes the easy part. you just feel then sexual feeling growing inside you and him. just start pulling his dick back and forth. that's it !! his penis enlarges more and more . when it goes too hard, it's time to make it more faster take it more and more faster. then maybe you can put his penis in your mouth. suck it as you would suck a nipple. and then you can continue in your mouth and start pull and pushing it violently. that's it the sperms come out and then you can go as dirty as you can .do anything you wouldn't like to do. then tell me if it's worked and how your guy liked it. best of luck!!!

The people on here are so stupid,
First of all the age of consent is different in every state, so please look it up for your state. Secondly, the one girl who said you'll be getting pregnant soon, what an idiot.
If anything oral sex is a contraceptive method as there is no way to get pregnant from giving a blowjob.
Another thing, angelfire, you don't even know this guy, yet you are passing judgement on him.
Hes a horny guy@!, and hes using you!@
You don't even know him, for all you know he may be in love with this girl, and no 4 years is not a big deal, especially since she is probably 14 by now, so it is only like 3 years.

we have acctulally known each other since I was 6. so he is not using me.

mayb I want a boyfriend in my grade because there are so many unexepting people of our age difference,

acctually he just turned 17 and im about to turn 14. so were only like 2 years appart

honestly. if you really liked a guy, you wouldn't give a sh*t if he was only three years older then you. So don't tell her what to feel! Kid, you to what you want, as long as your ready. Just be responsible.

your to young and your 13 he is 17 wow but ya ok all you do is ok guys like it when you give them bj when you do they like girl to play with there balls and they like girls to lick all of the parts well thats all im going to say have fun good lucky and becareful

RUN AWAY FROM THIS GUY. IF HE LOVED YOU HE WOULDN'T FORCE YOU TO DO SOMETHING THAT YOUR NOT READY FOR OR JUST TELL HIM NO AND SEE HOW HE REACTS.

-GOOD LUCK

well I dont think anyone actually answered your question so I am going to answer it but first I just need you to think and ask yourself if you want to do it or if it is only he that wants you two and then I would like you to ask yourself if you love him and if he truly loves you. is he forcing it or keeps asking? if he is dont do it. but if you want to do it and you love each other and he is not forcing it then feel free to have fun with it... now to actually answer your question... you may want to start off with a handjob because oral sex is sex and handjobs is just jacking him off sorry for being so brutal. handjobs are easy you can have him show you what he likes or you could experiment to see what he likes or maybe he likes something new that your doing. if you cant communicate with him then dont do it but since he told you he wants you to do it then I think you have a pretty open relationship. you can either unbutton his pants or if he is one to wear big pants you can just leave it buttoned. you can give him an errection and excited you can tease him by pulling on his underwear a little and moving your hand around his body. it will drive him crazy and maybe cause him to take your hand and put it down his pants. then when you are down there it is easiest to be kindof in front of him find your comfortable spot so your hand doesnt cramp up. play with his balls and move your hand up and down his penis and dont forget the head. ask him how tight you should grip it and how fast he wants you to go... also pay attention to his moans and/or breathing. if you want to go ahead with a blowjob you can take his pants fully off and keep giving him a handjob and then put your mouth over his penis and move it up and down whie playing with his balls and giving him a handjob there is no complication in this the guy is just going to be thrilled that it is happening... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

oh,thats awful,I dont want to tell you are too young,but you are !!!
you are in one of my relatives age,she is realy happy and her mind is totaly clear of what sexual relation is,so please do not do that,I am boy and I know what boys feel when they become horny,they just want to splash,its not different for them to masturbate or s.one gives hj or bj,so I just wish ro deny that work,I know if you do it when you become older you always regret and feel sad about it,that my real advice

well sorry but you are to young and you have to realize that it could be a mistake
you need to wait till your ready and when you are then youll know what to do

You don't. You see, four years isn't big. But. If you do it he can be in trouble with a law called stagitory rape ( May not be spelled right. ) But in otherwards. If you two have any sexual like relations or something more then kissing. Then he will get an automatic jail count for five years minimum. So in otherwards I reccomend you tell him no and inform him of the law, Or b. Break up with him. Sorry but it is the law hun, And if your giving bj's at 13, By 15 I bet it will be sex. So either way this relationship is moving him towards jail time.

OMFG I think your 2 yound but I aint here 2 judge u. its outrageous that your dateing a 17yo but 2 u, who cares. but if you want 2 give him a BJ, suck his dick and make sure your teeth arnt in the way or else it causes your boyfriend 2 experience pain, and trust me, it hurts like hell but lasts a few sec...but suck his dick till he cums on u, in you or in your mouth. good luck

HOW SAD! 4 hrs ago you posted a question I want a boyfriend so bad is it normal Now you magically have a boyfriend? Your are being USED, and you dont even care? This boy doesnt like you. He doesnt even care about you. All he wants is a naive little girl (YOU) to pleasure him. He isnt going to stick around when he gets what he wants. He'll find another stupid naive little girl to fill his needs! Have fun getting a bad reputation!

enjoy

yeah you give hima bj then a few months later he'll want sex etc wait until your at least 15 please

why is it illigal if we are both under 18?? ITS NOT SEX

by saying oral sex, isn't sex- your sadly misinformed.
ORAL SEX IS SEX.
you do know you can still get STD'S right?
no matter what you want to hear, your too young to do that.
and him being 17, and you 13- in this case, your too young for him.