My 16 year old cousin wants me

I'm in an interesting situation. I'm 21 and my cousin in 16. She is a typical hot Italian chick with a perfect tan, long black hair, and has a body like jessica alba. I think she wants to have sex or to start a relationship with me. I would love to plow...

her, but she's my cousin and I honestly don't want to get involved in that. Whenever I'm sitting on the sofa she always sits on my lap or sits next to me with her head on my shoulder and her hand rubbing my knee. Shes always putting her hands around my waist, and when we say hello or goodbye she always jumps up to hug me and kisses my neck. I've told her I'm not interested BUT there is something in my pants that always pokes up to say hello whenever she sits on my lap, hugs, or whatever. Because of that I think shes getting the wrong idea and thinks I'm just playing hard to get (no pun intended). How can I get her to stop? I can't avoid her and won't, shes family and I love her like a sister. Please help, summer is comming and she looks amazing in a bikini, haha.

hahaha are you from Tennessee hahahahaha

I would do it but then again she's 16 the family will find out for sure and that's not good .

I wouldn't think to do it if she was older but she is 16 and the family will find out for sure . Also the LAW is against you so no

I think that, as long as you use a condom, go for it, but be careful. DO NOT GET CAUGHT! and don't over do it either. Im nonjudgemental, so I don't think it's wierd at all. let me no what you do.

Hmmm This is a difficult situation. You have to worry about getting her off your mind before you get you off hers. For one thing, it would be considered incest. The only way it wouldn't be is if she was your third cousin. You're 21, and it's probably going to be one of the best years of your life. If you're not currently in a relationship, then maybe you can go flirt around and have fun with other girls your age. If you don't want to do that, then maybe you should go and start a relationship with someone. Or you can get your priorities straight. Are you going to school now? If you are, then work on your career and don't worry about girls right now. If you aren't in school, then maybe you should get in school. Get into a new routine that will get your mind off it. I know you said that you didn't want to, but maybe you can start seeing her a little bit less. You may not want to, but you may have to to avoid an awkward thanksgiving dinner with the family. It is perfectly normal to be attracted to your cousin because you see them even less than you do your friends. So you always have stuff to talk about, and they aren't as annoying as your brothers or sisters may be. So it's okay that you may be attracted to her. Honestly, I think that you should start something new, and make her old news. As it goes with her, she is 16. I know you may not want to hear this, but this is her prime. She is a good looking girl who is in mid puberty and wants sex. Nearly all girls around that age do, so don't take it like I'm calling her a slut or anything. It is the unfortunate truth; she is a 16 year old girl. She is so confused right now, and all she wants to do is fool around. It is perfectly normal. So it is understandable as to why she wants you. Because you're probably a good looking man in her eyes, and the fact that you are her cousin is blinded by hormones. You have to do the right thing. Because odds are she won't do anything about it. She will get over you. I promise. She is good looking, and I'm sure that she will find someone else and get over you. I wouldn't try talking to her, because if you do, maybe she will just want what she can't have even more. Maybe if you two are alone when you talk to her she will try jumping on you. Or maybe she will be really mad at you and your relationship as family could be affected. So it may not be the best idea to talk to her. You just give her a vibe that makes her think that you want her. Get rid of that vibe by getting rid of that idea. You like the idea of you two in your head. get rid of the idea so that there is nothing to like.
Best of luck!

OOOHHH MY. cousin? really. Tell her to cut it off shes your freakin cousin! tell her you dont go thata way! lol

WELL I THINK SHE JUST NEEDS TO STOP SITTING ON U GIVING you KISSES ON THE NECK because your NOT INTO HER ANYWAYS JUST HER LOOKS because REALITY you THINK ITS NASTY THAT SHE IS your COUSIN SO MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST BE LIKE you NEED TO STOP SITTING ON ME AND STUFF because I don't SEE you LIKE THAT JUST BE STRAIGHT OUT WITH HER IF you FEEL LIKE MESSIN AROUND WELL GO FIND SUM GIRLS MESS AROUND WITH THEM BUT NOT WIT HER

Dude, imagine if you accidentally got her pregnant...that would be seriously messed up.
Don't do it, she's family!

dude dont even do it...I think everyone has been in situations where they been attracted to and flirted with cousins ...but remember shes family ...shes still young shell grow out of it

just do it who cares lol

Dude, Im in the same situation but my cousin is 14 and im 20. Same exact situation, only I would actually like to have sex with her. She wants to with me, bad, but we have never had the time or place. If we did, we would be doing it non stop. Just do what you want man, live your life for yourself, not for others. Let me know what you end up doing.

stick in the as$