Molested by my stepbrother

I was mulested when I was 7&8 by me step bro. now were all cool and stuff but this past year there was this kid that on late bus would always tuch my boobs and leg when I wasnt looking I liked him so didnt care but one day he was feeling my leg and sayed that a lot of guys would like to do stuff with me if they could get me alown. but on regaler bus 7th grades sit in the front and 8th sit with high school so im scared to go into 8th because ever seens I was malested I have been scared to have sex. and like ever one in my school have already had sex. An advise to just stay way or just get it done and over with

heres my advice if you are scared to do it then I think you shouldn't get it over with because if your not ready then your not ready and maybe you let that kid touch you because you liked him but yet you got to set boundries you know make him stop when its to much so atleast you have self respect for yourself and your body

dont do anything you dont want to hun. you have a choice to make a real "first" experience special... your scared take charge and tell the guys to back off because your not interested. you can also wait till marriage or when you are ready and love someone very much. you dont even have to have sex!!! that is if you dont want children. its your body your choise so don feel pressured to do anything you dont want to do. but do yourself a favor and when you love someone in the future and want to have sex with them tell them you are scared because of what happened and if they dont understand or even help you through it they arent worth. atalesence is not a bad thing... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

yeahh...I was molested by my uncle at around the same age.
pretty sick ehh.
well you know, the memories would sometimes come back to sort of haunt me at the most random times, and I started wondering what sex would be like for me since I've been in the situation that I was in.. but uh fortunately, let me tell you, it really didnt bother me at all. I didnt really even think about the molestation b/c I was so concentrated on that
moment that me and my boyfriend were sharing..I mean im not going to lie, the past DID at one point cross my mind but then I just forgot about it as the "heat progressed" hah

but...uh..what im trying to say is that dont have sex just to "get it over with." Do it when you find someone you really like and care about b/c then if you dont, you'll just feel like youve given part of yourself away to someone and they just left with it. (talking from experience) =(

well I don't know its really your choice and you know yourself better than anyone else so do what you think is right to you I guess but at least try to apply some of the useful advice to your decision..