How to tell him I'm not ready yet?

hi its me again lol for all of you who answered me questions I am the girl who keeps asking how to get my relationship to be more intresting but now I need a guys point of view mostly some girls may answer but I really want to no what a guy thinks... ok well as many of you no I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and we have frenched, madeout, and he has sucked on and touched my upper body lol ... we just started that yesterday and I didnt feel unconfortable until he tried to take my shirt off and then we stopped and then he tried again... he says he loves me and I love him and I think he really does love me but I dont want to go anyfurther for a while cause I am just not ready yet ... my first question is how do I tell him that without sending mixed signals and my 2nd question is do you think he still respects me after doing this stuff with him. this is my worst fear = ( I don't know if im just thinking too much about it but I just need a guys point of veiw . oh and it is both of our 1st times doing this stuff but he isnt my 1st boyfriend and im not his 1st girlfriend... please help id really appreciate it

Loving someone means respecting them. You need to tell him straight up that just because you make out, and touch, doesnt mean you want to go farther! If you dont communicate that to him, hes not going to know. If he doesnt listen, then hes more interested in one thing. 5 mos. is too soon to be bringing "love" into the picture. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If relationships focus more on the physical, rather than the mental, emotional, or social aspect...it isnt going to last! You cant even communicate your feelings to him, because you dont want to send him mixed messages. Hun> that means you do not know each other very well. In mature relationships, intimacy is just a natural occurence. It isnt planned, and it doesnt make you question yourself.

You need to take things slower. 5 mos. at your age is not long enough for
anything. You will have lots of crushes/boyfriends. Dont throw everything away on your first, because he wont be your last!

I think angelfire2708 said it all. and I know she is a girl, but I would say the same thing to you and I am a boy.
If I were him, I would just want you to straight up tell me.
Tell him EXACTLY what you want to get across. Find a serious time, in a serious place, and tell him.
Because if he doesn't listen to you, and respect what you are saying, he's not a good boyfriend. He needs to go at the speed that you want to go at with your relationship and if he doesn't do that, he doesn't respect what you want, and that would mean thatn you are not in a healthy relationship.
hope this all helps!!! =)
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Wow rdtallboy25, are you sure you're only 14? Very well said!

thanx guys I told him what I felt and he said that he will wait until I am 100% ready ^ ^

Great! good luck Kattie!

Haha angelfire2708, yes I am 14. I may not look it or sound it but I am!