More than friends

I still want to be friends with him but keep it platonic because he is still in a committed relationship of marriage. its hard though because he is a good smooth talker he talks a lot about future plans with me in them, he has suggested on several occassions for us to get a motel and have crazy sex but I dont give him an answer much less commit to that engagement. I do desire him a lot but think its best I dont cross the sexual line I think that I would only be hurting myself in the long run what do you think? he talks to me in kind and gentle ways and says that he would not hurt me and feels comfortable with me. is that a tack tic he is using to sway me to drop my briges and have sex with him?? he says there is no more love between him and his wife but again how do I know that is true or he is bluffing me into giving in to him?? he has given me small gifts like suveniors and has even asked me if he could pay for my cell phone bill which he has.. what do you think is he being sencerly to a certain point or is he confused and unsure or playing a game with me??

You have to understand that most men would prefer to remain married and have an ongoing affair on the side when their marriage isn't working. It takes a lot of effort to get a divorce and split the assets. If you give in and become involved with him romantically, there is a good chance that he will never get a divorce. You really should take a stand and tell him that you care about him and want to have a relationship with him but ONLY when his divorce is final. If you don't make him choose, then you will stay in limbo forever. I believe in the saying, 'Actions speak louder than words.' It doesn't matter what he says. It matters what he does. If he is willing to have an affair with you while he's married, he'll do the same to you some day because he lacks character. I also believe that you should conduct your life by never doing what you would not want to have happen to you. If your marriage was in trouble, you would not want another woman stepping in until your marriage ended. Hes lonely and is looking for someone to heal his wounds. You cannot mistake loneliness and pain for love. If I were you, I'd wait until he is free before getting deeply involved. Give him an ultimatum!

Leave married men alone. If they want to screw up THEIR relationships there's nothing you can do about it, but don't be a player in the game.

Well the way this is written she is 'looking' too. Don't have intercourse but the free phone is worth giving the guy a great blowjob from time to time. Have him do things to you that you are afrair to ask your Husband to do. Get freaky and have some fun. You only live one life, learn to enjoy it to the maximum!