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More than friends?

Asked by babygurl22 over 2 years ago, 2 answers.
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Ok- so I'm a college student finally getting out into the 'social world' and having a great time enjoying myself. I had no idea what bars or clubs were like until I went for the first time with a guy friend of mine. We met through a mutual friend and started hanging out and from there some feelings developed. He would always offer to do things for and with me ie. knitting (which I don't know how to do), jetskiing, shopping for beverages for a party I had and hanging out with his friends. He also started showing up in places I happened to be in regularly- like outside of my classroom or on the way to class or at the dining place. His face would always light up and his eyes would just be so bright. One night we hung out with my friends at my placed and he decided we should order some pizza. He gave me his wallet (something no guy has ever done) but wouldn't take it back even after I tried on several attempts to give it back. Then I had a hat belonging to him after a night out and I tried to give it back but he wouldn't take it. Instead, he told me to hang on to it for a while and that he had many other hats to use. So one day after about two months, I decided to ask him about what was what. His response was that he's a very blunt person and that if there's something/someone he wanted, he would go after it. But later on in the conversation as we talked some more, he said that he is a really shy person. So, I left it at that. Didn't push the issue at all despite my gut feeling. Anyway, just recently, we hung out two nights back to back at a bar with some of our friends. Remembering what tips he gave me on what to do when you're at a bar, I decided to mingle. That mingling involved me talking to a number of guy friends-some of whom expressed their delight in seeing me. So after talking with 6/7 of them, my friend [he] comes up behind me, taps me on my shoulder and signals for me to come with him. He sits down at this table and I saw him looking at me. I didn't go right away as I mingled some more with other folks. However, when I got to the table, a guy I didn't know walked right up to me and took my hand and said I looked like I wanted to dance, so I did because my 'friend' and I have nothing going on. Several other times that night other guys asked me to dance and all the while my friend sat at the table looking pissed. It was only after I went and asked my friend to dance that he came on to the dance floor. This same scenario happened the following night except then he appeared to be even more upset at my dancing with other people. Right now, I'm confused because he says if he wanted something to go on, he would have it but his jealousy says otherwise (it seems)? What about the fact that he has offered to still do other activities with me? I'm confused.

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Answered by oneofakind on Feb 21, 2006, 09:03AM
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It seems like he likes you. Just tell him that you were just wondering how he feels about you.

pascal Answered by pascal on Feb 22, 2006, 06:31PM
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It definitely looks like he wants more than to just be friends. Try having a serious conversation on your relationship as friends or more. Tell him that you want to know your status with eachother without trying to push him, because you know he's shy. Simply tell him that you really don't want to continue to hurt his feelings but really don't know what to do with the situation because it's undefined. Once you realize your status with eachother you'll be able to live you social life the way you want without having a jealous friend/boyfriend staring you down.

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