More than friends

I still want to be friends with him but keep it platonic because he is still in a committed relationship of marriage. its hard though because he is a good smooth talker he talks a lot about future plans with me in them, he has suggested on several occassions for us to get a motel and have crazy sex but I dont give him an answer much less commit to that engagement. I do desire him a lot but think its best I dont cross the sexual line I think that I would only be hurting myself in the long run what do you think? he talks to me in kind and gentle ways and says that he would not hurt me and feels comfortable with me. is that a tack tic he is using to sway me to drop my briges and have sex with him?? he says there is no more love between him and his wife but again how do I know that is true or he is bluffing me into giving in to him?? he has given me small gifts like suveniors and has even asked me if he could pay for my cell phone bill which he has.. what do you think is he being sencerly to a certain point or is he confused and unsure or playing a game with me??

Look, you cant stay friends with this guy becos he will always try and get more out of you! Of cause he is feeding you crap about seeing you in his furture becos he wants to keep you hanging on so he can continue his lil affair on the side. SLEEPING WITH HIM WILL BE THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO! it will make him see that you are weak and will give into him with a bit of persuasion and will continue to stay with his wife and see you on the side becos he nos you'll fall for his charms. He feeds you crap to get you into bed so he has some intimacy in his life. he is playing games with you!!! you need to leave and let him no its not ok what he is doing and find yourself a good man who will treat you right.

) since you are very active writing about him, that shows for me that he is in your mind almost all the time, I advice you to try him at least once in that motel that he keeps inviting you. You know, I learned from women that, later almost all of them have regretted that if they had let such a chance pass by.

if it is truly over between him and his wife why are they not getting a divorce..he may be falling in love with you but he may also just be using niceness as a way of getting you into bed..you are sensible not to have sex with him but he is trying to lower your defences..it would take a very strong woman not to play into his hands..if he really loves his wife he will not divorce her for you