More than a friend

How can I be more than just the friend? Most of my guy friends only go for the girls who are really slutty and act like complete bimbos in front of them. There's this one guy who I've liked for ages, but he's a bit of a player. We're great friends, and...

I've given loads of hints that I like him, but I don't think he'll notice I like him unless I flash him!! I'm too embarrassed to tell him because his girlfriends are always sooo stunning, how can I get him to realise on his own??

do you flirt and stuff around him? if you do I dont see how he can miss this big hint lol, even tho like a week ago I was in your situation soo I actually just blurted out how I felt when we was drunk and you know what he said '' I like playing hard to get, I fancy you like mad and your amazing and sweet'' I wanted to slap him because I really didnt think he liked me in that way and thought I was wasting my time LOL now were together . Funmail me if you want to chat more about your situation

**Most of my guy friends only go for the girls who are really slutty and act like complete bimbos**

**There's this one guy who I've liked for ages, but he's a bit of a player**
Are you that desperate, that you would get involved with a player, or one who likes slutty girls? What does that say about the kind of person you are? Why dont you date someone who sees you as a person, not a sex object? Guys who date girls who are easy, and players only want ONE thing, and its not a relationship! If you dont want to end up getting used, or your heartbroken, find a guy who respects girls!

Whatever you do, keep your pride and don't be a slut. The end although it may be a longer wait, will always be more rewarding.

When you throw yourselves at guys (or anyone really), they tend to lose respect for you.