What should I do my wife likes to spend all our money?

What should I do my wife likes to spend all our money and stupid stuff. yesterday she said she had a supise for me when I got home. When I got there she had gotten a dog when we had talked about getting a dog when we could afford it does she not relize its hard enough already

Sit down and have a heart-to-heart - might be wise to separate accounts to maintain financial viability...Take care !!

separate accounts

SHES INSENSTIVE . YOU HANDLE ALL THE MONEY ISSUES

You may need to see a counselor over this matter. You see her as frivolous and spending everything. She may see you as a tightwad and a kill joy. Many marriages eventually break up over this very issue. Where the "tightwad" becomes angry and controlling, while the "spendthrift" becomes resentful and rebellious. You need to find a common ground and both may have to compromise. And that usually needs a disinterested party - a counsellor.
Good Luck!!

bernice 2008, you shut up. when he asked her to marry him, he also said you and I will share are money. thats what all married couples do. your stupid and will never get any boys! oh, btw, just talk to her and explain how your feeling, gently!

Seeing a counselor would be a good idea. If you can't afford that, perhaps you could ask a mutual friend to help. Try talking to her and telling her that it's ok to splurge every now and then, but buying a dog is an ongoing financial commitment. Tell her that if you save money for a little while, you both might be able to buy something nice that makes it worth saving for rather than spending it on various little things that aren't as rewarding. Also, unlike what babygirl220 said, there's nothing wrong with having seperate accounts. Babygirl220 you're still young, you don't realize that they might both have something to gain by seperating accounts.

That how all girl do tell her how you feel.Talk to her tell her if you keep on spending money we have no money.And also tell her that she might to get a job or do something to help around the house.