Mom problems

ok everytime I try to talk to my mom we end up in an argument. she alwaiis criticizes me talkin bout how stupid I look and how bad I dress. and on top of that she whines because I dont talk to her. some one please tell meh how da hell can I solve this...

because im really tired of dha b.s and im about to leave ma house or do something even worst

Sounds like your mom is just missing her little girl. Just talk to her have a casual conversation and not about who, you are or what you look like, work up to that point. let her know how you feel. We all have this problems and there is no point going balistic about it and doing something stupid. Remeber mothers only do this because they want what is best for their children. I never though it was true when people say you will think you parents someday, but it is. They are the ones who helped shape me into the person I am today and lead me down the right path in life. We all go through the high school phases.

I would b like mom. I tryn talk to you but you wont let me. you always birch at me for little things that I have no control over. im sorry im not perfect. but I love you and want a relationship with you but you just cant seem to let that happen. so imma try harder if you will.

thast what I would say.
I said that to my dad, worked like a charm.

Look we have all had this problem, you need to think about what you are going to say before you say it, ask yourself, if I answer her this way, am I going to get the reaction I want? if you know what you are about to say it going to start a fight or not what you want to hear, then don't say it, Pick and choose your words carefully and I will promis you that you will get a better reaction, but you need to bit your tounge and be nice, My mom and I use to duke it out all the time, and once I respected her, she respected me, hey give on to others as you want them to give on to you. you give what you get back, now change that,

Wow, I honestly believe your mom wants to be closer with you but probably dont know how. When she critizes you, I think its only cause she misses her little girl.
Maybe you dress different than before. I must admit I went through that with my daughter. We have a tight bond and at some point in my life when she started high school this yr, she started dressing different and always wanted to be with her friends etc. We just werent as close anymore and she wouldnt talk to me like usual.
I missed her even though she lives with me. And I admit I didnt like how she was dressing, she became emo/screamo and grew an attitude for no reason. Thats when I critized her way of dressing. I was just upset with the change. Not only that. she ended up with F's.

She came to me one day and told me she misses spending time with me and asked why we dont talk anymore and thats when she opened her eyes, We had a good conversation and she's back to herself again. Later she realized her friends didnt really care for her. (but thats a different story)

I honestly believe your mom wants to any closer to you. Tell her you love her and you wanna open up to her. Try not to argue with her and when she critizes you just dont get mad hun. A moms heart is really fragile when it comes to watching her little girl grow up. She just wants whats best for you.

Let me know what happens hun, I'm more than gladly here for you. Take Care

Ooops I didnt realize youre a boy... well I hope my advice helps you realize how important you are to your mom.