Misscarrige!? help please

I found out two weeks ago I was pregnant again but I was just over a month gone, I wasnt planning on keeping this child so I carried on as normal, drinking and partying, I slept at my boyfriends last night after anotha night of drinking and when I...

woke up this morning I had cramps and the urge to stand up, when I did so blood came pouring out of me, I am still slightly bleeding now, have I had a misscarrige? What are the signs? Please help me I dont know what to do!!!

its very likly
drinking while pregnant isnt safe for you or your baby
its horrible and can cause birth defects or withdrawel symptoms when the baby is born
what you did was wrong
even if you had a baby inside you
you should never just continue drinking or doing anything else bad
this is both if you plan to keep it or if you dont
what you should have done was get an abortion asap
all you can do now is go to the hospital RIGHT NOW
tell them you were pregnant, that youve been drinking a lot while you were pregnant and that a lot of blood has suddenly gudshed out of you
go there right now, and tell them what happened
the more they know the quicker they can find out whats wrong with you and if it was a misscarige

how cud you do this to a life you are very wrng for what you have dun and maybe god will never bless you with another I cant believe anyone wud do this..

I already have a little boy who is only 7months old so I wasnt intending on keeping it and was going to the doctors 2moro to book an abortion!! what I did was upto me and I dont need you criticising me

I'm sorry for your loss.

Yes, you most likely had a misscarriage. You need to go to the ER right away. Having a misscarriage without getting checked out right away can cause serious problems in the future with you.

Also, even if you were getting an abortion carrying on with life drinking and partying was a very stupid move. You could have injured yourself and you could have caused a lot of problems to your own body. Even if you were getting an abortion - you should have held out and not partied for while. Also, where is your baby while your out partying and drinking all the time? Who is taking care of it? What kind of mother are you?

Get to the ER, now.

Mandyloo my son was in very safe hands with my sister, I would never leave him with anyone I dont trust! , I never said I drink all the time so dont just assume or criticise my parenting skills as you dont know me, I asked for information about the topic you are reading not help on parenting! thanks for your advice though

It's hard to not criticise someone who was pregnant and just went on with their life and was drinking.

I did give you information about the topic you asked -you are most likley having a misscarriage and need to get to the ER immediatly. That means get off the computer and go to the hospital. You are putting your own body at risk here by waiting.

Also, You said this:
so I carried on as normal, drinking and partying, I slept at my boyfriends last night after anotha night of drinking

So of course you are going to get judged - you said yourself that you party and drink and just carry on with your life - is partying and drinking more important than your own personal healthy or spending time with your child that is still alive?

Yes. Were they very clotty. And when your done bleeding immediately take a pregnancy test. You might have to go to the hospital if your still in pain. the blood is terrible for your body. this wasnt a bright decision an abortion more then likely would have been better.

mandyloo I do not agree with how you are treating her. she has made a mistake and has come on here for people to help and for support she dont need you to make her feel worse.