Mike, chris, dave, and myself

so my good friend mike has liked me since the beginning of the school year. at first I had a boyfriend so he couldnt do anyhing about it...then after my boyfriend and I broke up mike still didnt make a move. after a while mike finally told me how much he liked me and asked me out. he didnt just ask me out on a date he asked me to be his girlfriend. I liked him and everything but I wanted to hang out with him first because I had never hung out with him like that before. then I started to crush on one of his friends named chris. chris and I flirted for a while but then at my friends party I met a boy named dave who was really fun. mike still hadnt asked me out on a date and has never had a girlfriend before so I didnt really want to go out with him. Dave however has been wanting to hang out and I really like him. but now mike finally wants to hang out and I cant tell him I have moved on because that would crush him. I still also like chris because he is extremely cute but I dont know how much he likes me...im just confused, what should I do.....go out with my good friend who is very sweet and sensitive, try to get chris who is the blonde hotti, or hang out with dave who is really funny and really likes me?

Bloody hell this is complicated. My only advice is that when it comes to choosing between people, the chooser normally knows who they like the most but wants someone else to agree with them, so first my advice is that you should do what you truly feel is write, because it will be. If you truly want my opinion (and I am only going on what your post said), I think the fact that four boys like you is a compliment, don not worry about hurting mike, it is better to be honest in the long run, it will hurt him more if you lie. Choosing Chris could be complicated if he is mates with Mike, but if you really like him go for it. Personally I would go for Dave; he seems like the least complicated. Mike seems like a sweet, shy bloke, apparently a bit like me (or so I am told) and if I can try and stand up for all the shy men in the world, please don not be put of by the fact he doesn’t have a girl friend, he seems to like you the most out of the three. That probably doesn’t help, but follow your heat.

You like 3 guys, because 1 is fun, 1 is cute, and the other because you liked him first? Try and pick 1 guy that has a lot of good qualities! You sound like you could just pick out any guy to like!! Why dont you try spending some quality time with them, and then figure out what you want. Being cute or fun doesnt mean theyll be the best pick! Let your heart be the judge!!!