Men's perspective needed

Hi guys, so I have kind of a long story but please bear with me! I'm a senior in high school and am graduating in 6 weeks. I'm a member of chorus and recently we acquired a new chorus teacher for one of the four classes. He is undoubtedly one of the nicest looking men I've seen in a while and all the girls adore him. I intern with him in his class and I'm beginning to wonder if maybe there's something between us. He is flirted with a lot by the other girls in chorus and always is polite but never flirts back; however his reaction is completely different with me. Its gone to the point where other members of chorus have told me they can tell he flirts back with me, touches/talks to me more than others, etc. He is a married man, with a daughter a year younger than me and a son two years older. He's left his wife once and they are now reconciled but I wonder still if he's unhappy with her and is attempting to pursue something with me. I refuse to be a homewrecker and destroy his married life but I'm quite confused as to what all this extra attention from him means. Advice please? And any perspective from someone who is male and married or even just male would be great!

you shouldnt do that it is just wrong for you to do especially since you are about graduate and he is already married. So just keep flirting and leave it at that because he could have AIDS

I know you just wanted advice from males but --- I can tell you what all the attention means. It means he's attracted to you. I'd guess too, that it's a purely sexual attraction. Stay away, don't flirt, he's much older and in a position of authority. Nothing good can come out of you responding to his body language in the way he wants. If he was single, and not your choir master, I'd say do what you like with him.

Ok well I'm quite sure he doesnt have AIDS and I hadn't said I was going to take him up on this attention..I just am not sure what exactly it meant.

You are playing a dangerous game here.

Regardless of whether he is flirting or not he is your teacher and if you 'respond'him, you are not only putting his marriage at risk but his whole teaching career!

Take a step back and be realistic here please. For both off your sakes.

Why not look around for someone who is single and around your own age.

Your behaviour towards him may be encouraging and no way should you be wondering if he is happy or not with his current wife. This is none of your business, please keep your distance and be aware of your behaviour towards him.

Are you sure he is the one doing the flirting?

This situation has all the makings of a nightmare scenario.

Back off girl!

I think some people are misinterpreting the situation. I am not asking for a lecture on what is and isn't my business nor am I asking anyone what to do about it. Simply what this extra attention means. I'm not slutty or promiscuous in any way nor am I one of those teenage girls that jumps on anyone that seems interested. Thanks.

Ok the extra attention means he wants to screw your brains out. What else could it mean?