Do guys actually like doing this stuff?

this might seem a bit dumb but really I dont get it .. do you guy actually get turned on when youre fondling/sucking on a woman's breasts or do you guys just do it to please her?.the same with fingering a girl..do you men actally like to? whats so good about it?

All guys are different.
Some guys get enjoyment out of things like that, some don't. I know that my boyfriend is obsessed with my breasts. Of course men get enjoyment out of fingering a girl, just like us girls get enjoyment out of doing things to them. Whats so good about it? I'm not sure, I don't know whats so good about doing things to my boyfriend, but I still love it. Maybe its the feeling of knowing that you are pleasing someone, I think thats one of the things.

yes but doesnt fingering feel wierd or gross to them? =|

Nope.
They enjoy knowing that they are pleasing you. Theres nothing gross about fingering, as long as you are clean which I assume you are.

Guys sometimes get turned on by turning their girls on if you see what I mean. If they make a girl feel good then it makes them feel good that they are able to do that. Also, it all depends on the guy. Like stephanif987 said..all guys are different.

well stephanief987...u said it like it is guys do that stuff because they like to and/or to please the girl, thats why I do that stuff too and to answer the other question...because it was my first time it did feel weird but that was because I didnt know what to expect but the second time I know so it wasnt weird and no its not gross either it lets the guy know the girl trust him enough to let him do that...trust is very helpful in many different was always remember that hope I helped if you want anymore help just funmail me

Great question to think about. I have never gone into the psycology of our interest in breasts but from when I was only 4 - 5 I enjoyed touching my mothers breasts. I would lay in bed with her and put my hand under one and just enjoy being close to her that way. Later I found that fondling, sucking and nibbling on them was arrousing to both me and the girl. It was important as part of the forplay process. Some girls enjoyed it more than others. I always enjoy the touch and warmth of a womans breast. As for fingering it also is an important part of forplay. Primarily for me it is to heighten the arrousal of my partner. It is also very erotic for me to feel the warmth and wetness of an arroused woman. When they enter into the experiance they enjoy the motion and hardness of the fingers. Also the fingers can curve and surch internal sensitive places that can't be reached by a pen*s. This is frequently a real turn on for the woman. It all comes down to what you enjoy and letting your partner know what and how you like it and in turn learn what pleases him.
Good luck
Gino

I don't feel anything wierd or sick in fingering a girl, it actually turns me on looking at her loving the pleassure, so its mostly about pleassuring the girl, but I really enjoy doing it for them and they ussually love it