Memorial mope!

So I went to a memorial service today and someone said to me you will feel so much better after this because everybody is grieving over the same person and everyone will cry with you... This was just a memorial service and it wasn't like we were putting any one in the ground but this was for my favorite teacher and I was trying to hold back tears for like five or ten minutes and when my favorite teachers husband went up there and started to say things and he cried I just caved I mean I had oceans coming out of my eyes! Then they showed a picture reel of my favorite teachers pictures of her with her daughter when she was little and they even had pictures of when my teacher was just a little thing herself and she was adorable! I wish I saw these pictures when she was alive! That would have been fun! So any ways I dont feel a whole lot better and I wish someone knew how to cheer me up from all this oh and if any one wants to hear the story just write the story here and please no negative comments and only people who know what to say stuff k? If you know how to help or you have any stories of your own please share... Thank you and good night kindf

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Fondly always remember the good times and smile...Take care !!

        Simply a Rose to brighten your day,
        And maybe lessen the cares in your way;
        And also, too, to help you to know,
        That in knowing you, many others grow!

 
Grieving, including crying, is good for you. By attending the memorial service you were able to give your subconscious a finality to the situation. It will process that information over the next couple of days making it easier for you to accept the situation. You'll never be 'happy' over it but you will become reconciled to it and it will stop bothering you.

always cry never stop!be happy I learned that when my mom pasted away...and I would love to hear the story if you want to talk