Me, my girl, sex, raped, stis

Me and my girl friend are thinking of having sex but about three months ago (before we got together) she was raped, well she was drunk on holliday and ended up with a boy said no, I don't need to go into the details, but she hasn't been cheked for STIs, so what do I do? Needless to say he wasn't wearing a condom. Oh and will it hurt her, and is there anything I can do to help with any pain. Seeing as I want to make it sooooooooo special for her as it is our first time together, and my first time ever.

tell her to go get herself checked but try not to offend her

Checking STD is important, you may alleviate her pain by love, anyway her drunk adventure is not really your problem. OK, love her, help her, of course, but that 'rape' was a consequence of her own adventure.

SHe needs to be checked before you have sex for sure, if she hasnt told her parents, she chould go to a free clinic and get it done there. It may still hurt her b/c even after the first time, it still hurts some girls. you can help with the pain by taking it easy the first time. Go slow and ask her about how fast she awants to go. Let her set the pace. Just let her know that you love her and care about her.