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Me and my boyfriend really want to do it...

Asked by sexaybabee 8 months ago, 7 answers.

my boyfriend and I have been going out 4 like 5 months and we really want to do it but he doesnt want to wear a condom because it takes all the feelin away and I think thats B.S and then he wants to have a kid and im not ready. I mean I really want to...

do it with him but im not ready and he doesnt want to understand but I love him ALOTTT. what do I do???

Answered by vi3t_gothic on Mar 28, 2009, 10:16AM
27 answers

My opinion.
He should respect your side if you dont want to engage in sex
with out a condom.
and truly.
**im going on a limb here**
if you're not ready for a child,
then he may not be either
because girls are indeed much more mature that guys in many situation.
so I say,
if he loves you enough to respect what you want then thats good
but if he dont want to understand it then I say keep your pants on until you can get him
to understand.

---trust me. I have a daughter. im 15. and its not that easy---
fun mail me if you have any questions. =]

Answered by beth_liveyourlife on Mar 28, 2009, 10:20AM
2299 answers

I doubt it's because he wants a kid it's just because he is immature and has no respect for you. Sorry to be blunt but it's true. I mean I really want to do it with him but I'm not ready- there's your answer hun- you are NOT ready so don't do it. Don't be pressured to do something you don't want to. if he doesn't respect your feelings then he isn't worth being with.

Answered by johnyboy58 on Mar 28, 2009, 10:22AM
192 answers

if he loves you he will understand your opinions.. easy as that

Answered by burntoutx on Mar 28, 2009, 10:33AM
309 answers

Why do you go on birth control if he insists on not wearing a condom?
You can get the pill from your doctor.
But really he should of just agreed to wear the condom in the first place.

Answered by woahhh on Mar 28, 2009, 02:20PM
820 answers

Don't have sex with the jerk if he's not willing to wear a tiny little condom. He doesn't respect you so why should you give in. And guys can feel a lot. So don't let this kinda thing happen. If he cared for you and didn't want you to get pregnant or STI's then like most other guys he wouldn't mind. So tell him to grow up and wear one or your not letting him inside you. PLUS if you are not ready to have sex - don't. Simple as - it's your own decision and if he doesn't respect it then get rid of him. Just 'cause you love him doesn't mean you have to give into everything he wants. Believe me or you'll find out the hard way. Goodluck.x

Answered by ashbobash on Mar 28, 2009, 04:56PM
90 answers

Well, if you want to have sex, and he dosen't want to use a comdom, then you should just have oral sex...if you want to.

Answered by joshburn09 on Apr 08, 2009, 11:47AM
103 answers

make it clear to him that ya dont want to do it unless he wears a condom
sex is sex and the end of the day just tell him that you dont want ta get
preganant!!!

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