Me and my boyfriend have clashing libidos?

Ok I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We live together and when I first moved in the sex was great. But since college started it has dwindled drastically. It's been about 5 months now when we only have sex maybe once or twice in 2 weeks! I'm always bugging him and he says he's tired or too busy. He has even said to a friend "my problem isnt getting her to put out.. it's to get her to put in!" I would love to have sex at least 3 times a week but it isn't happening and I've tried everything! Is it just our libidos? Something wrong with his or mine?

College brings on a LOT of demands and often will make someone who is very into their studies too tired to even think about sex. The problem with men and women is that they reach their sexual peaks at very different times. A mans sexual peak comes between 18-21 and a woman doesn't hit her's until her late 30's or early 40's. You may need to sit back and think if you're trying to hard to express yourself through sex. Is this your way of letting you know you love him or are you truely interested in 3 times a week? Stop and think about his schedule, is it very demanding while you are carrying a lighter load? If all else fails and you 'need' sex more often then by all means do it yourself (and you KNOW what I mean). Often schedules conflict or other things get in the way of sexual intimacy but you can always fix that without turning it into a huge event. If you would like to go another route and guarantee yourself more sex simple repeat the following ... 'I think we need to talk. Some of my friends and I were talking about how often they have sex and when I stated it was only 2 times every two weeks, they are convinced that you are gay or that you have a problem with performance. If thats the case we can see a doctor about medical treatments.'
Whatever you do don't pulll out the 'I guess I'll have to get it somewhere else since you won't give it to me' card. That is a HUGE mistake, because then he will suspect you all the time.

no don't give up let me give you a tip for getting him int the mood you can mke him alitle jelous tell him that he does make you fell like a woman anymore and that is just to bad becuse theres a lot of guys who would love make love to you and he will get mad and one thing would lead to another and you will be having sex in no time need more help and if this not work email me at Fun mail me and im always up for new ideas!

I WOULD WALK AROUND NAKED HE WOULD want to HAVE SEX THEN

I do mas*urba*e frequently and very openly. (not that you wanted to know..) I posted this question in March. It is now December. It was better for a while... but now he is on christmas break and it's worse than ever. I'm usually very dominant. He just always brushes me off. It's been 25 days since the last time we had sex... it really bothers me. He gets upset when I go solo. We just completely clash in the sack. I love him very much, this is the only thing that comes between us. I told him to buy me a vibrator for christmas - THATS how bad it is.

Things have evened out a little. He likes to withdraw sex from me to get what he wants which isn't fair but I'll live with that.

Also, we just got engaged!

even though im only 13 I would be careful not 2 be alittle 2 pushy eventhough you are engauged

well mabye hes just tired a lot does he work a lot? does he have any other close friends? and when you do have sex just do the best you can to pleasure him.

try the completly shaved vagina in a bathrobe walking around with it a little open (like the movie with jennifer aniston)

Has the situation improved since you got married?

not really but I've pretty much come to terms with it.

And all those suggestions... I've tried all of that and MORE.

He's the best thing to happen to me even though we clash in the sack. When we have sex, it's amazing.