Me & my best friend are falling apart because i told him i lik

I have this really close friend I mean we are really close well I started to fall for him but I always keep it to myself amp; only like one person knew amp; me amp; him would mess around a lot amp; stuff well one day I just came out amp; told him I...

liked him amp; I asked if he liked me he said Yeah I like you but not much but I#039;m getting there the more I talk to you the more I like you I could see us going out in the future well a few weeks later he has a girlfriend amp; now I feel like we are falling a part its like he never wants to be seen with me except in one of the classes we have together amp; I dont know what to do I dont know how to get it to the way it use to be before I told him amp; I#039;m trying to get over him in that way but I cant I really dont know how! And I#039;ve tried not talking to him as much but I cant do that I feel like we will totally fall a part then so what should I do?

You#039;ve written here about this guy before, haven#039;t you? He may like you, but he doesn#039;t like you quot;enough.quot; What does that mean? He likes you to play around with when no one is watching. He likes you to be in the background waiting for him if no one better comes along. He likes you to like him. And he#039;ll continue to treat you this way as long as it is okay with you?

I would try to rein in my feelings if I was you--because they are not equal to his. Say quot;hiquot; to him, but not much else. If he asks why, tell him that #039;friends don#039;t treat friends like they don#039;t exist when other people are around.#039; Then turn around and don#039;t listen to his excuses.

Then give yourself time to get over him and keep reminding yourself that you deserve better.