Married with feelings for married friend?

I have feelings for my female married friend. I know that we have become closer over the years and have become so close that we have actually started closing our emails and cards by saying luv you etc. Should I just tell her how I feel or let things ride???

I think you should let her no how you feel because if you let things slide their is a bigger chance of ruining you and her marrige. but if you leave it alone and let it slide that mite turn out very bad and could make you lose her and your partner.

No. You are the friend. She is married, you knew the boundries when you started to become her friend and know the boundries now. Respect them. Marriage is hard enough. I believe you should continue to be a really good friend.

Unless you master plan is to get her to divorce her husband and marry you, I do not see any reason to tell her.

If her situation changes, then tell her but for now...let it ride. I always think, you can always say it - you can not unsay it. Also, what if you tell her and you lose her as a friend? It is a risk.

Tell her that what you feel, but be prepared for a negative answer.

so your married have feelings for a married friend,

well I suppose you let your your wife know, if you dont love her no more..
and for your married friend tell her.. and your friends right? so she wont hurt negative you down badly she probley do it softly but you never know she might feel the same way so its worth trying..
just tell her how you feel..