Married with crush

I LOVE my husband so much. But I keep thinking about his coworker. I find him funny and attractive and we see him and his girlfriend a lot. I want to have a regular relationship with him but I keep thinking about him... how do I get over this? I dont want to persue anything. HELP!

Thats really fucked up... your husband trust you and you're just making him look like a sucker. stop looking at other men and pay attention to the man you married. you shouldnt have married if you were just going to look at other men. GROW up deal with the fact that YOU made the decision to get married and stop thinking about yourself and your 'FEELINGS' . no wonder the divorce rate is at 64%

Everybody who is married has these little 'crushes.' Anyone who says they don't are lying, and anybody who says it is wrong has never been married. Just understand that it's going to happen and try not to beat yourself up over it. Don't think that it means you don't love your husband anymore. When you find yourself thinking of the other person, stop fantasizing, and think about something else--think about how good your relationship is with your husband. Eventually, the crush will go away. I believe that unrealistic expectations are the real reason for the high divorce rate.

It's just a crush. Even though you are married, it doesn't mean you are dead. People still think other people are attractive. Just make sure you don't act on it, because you can really mess up a lot of other people's lives.

Just make sure it doesnt turn into more than a crush. Im going through something like that right now(check out my question if you want), and I dont wish how I feel right now on my worst enemy.