Married man loves me complicated please help

Right, so I met this man, he sold me some stuff that I had won on ebay, so he brung it to me, because I had no way of getting there, anyways, he was braggin to me showing me pictures of he's car Lol.. and then he left 2 weeks later I had to email see if...

he knew where to get something from, and since than we had been talkking, hes wife knows that we were talking (hes wife is ill she had a stroke but is geting better its just her speaking thts gone now) and hes mums got cancer, So bascially. I was there for him, and shes was happy I was, till we both started having feeling for eachother, I simply told him from the start I didnt want to become between him and hes wife (thay have 2 kids together) he was tellin me how hes wife a bi*tch and how she put her pills down the sink, so she had a baby when it wernt the right time for him and stuff then 3 years later he had another kid to prove his love for her.. anyways.. She was fine with us talking. but our feelings for eachother got deeper. and he said he can't just walk out like that because of the kids and the house Agreement, (its rented so if one goes thay both have to)/ and he wont do that because the kids will be homeless. and he wont leave because His wife need him at the moment because shes ill. and if he was ot leave now she'd ruine him.. anyways.. we argued, and thay spoke about spliting up.. and he showed his wife mine and hes convo's appanley.. and she was kool about it.. (a few days ago before he showed her I tried addin her on facebook).. anyways she must of not accept than send me one, because it asked me to comfirm so I did. and she started asking me Wot the f*uk is going on and stuff... and appanley I was playing mine games, I just told her nothing was going on but mixed feelings (because the night before we agrued and thing had changed).. anyways, she than went on neil msn, and my mate was on my msn, and I wa on ym oother account so we did a 3way convo.. and she said iw as a family recker and stuff. witch isnt true.. (he told me he had feelings for me 1st and fings wernt working out ).. And we argued with her, and she removed me of he's msn, and facebook.. ( I also met up with the man before at a car show because he said friendship is a good place to start and he really wanted to meet me ).. he was shy as anything.. so I dont think its something he does often.. also on facebook I was speaking to the mans brother in law. he added me because he thought I was CUTE.. he knew that I liked this man'.. anyways after the arguement on msn.. She Removed me of her FACE book And of the mans facebook.. Also I checked tonight to see if I was of the brother in law facebook and I was.. I find that very WEIRD that the brother in law has removed me too.. id Litally think it was him on it.. to see what im like.. But it cant be because there over 50+mates.. anyways after the wife had been on He's msn she must of removed me of there, I texted the married man, sayin LOL well take care, and Enjoy your life, and thanks for the stuff.. he didnt text me back..
I don't get it if he had feelings for me he wouldnt just stop contact.. he said he was gonna leave her??.. and even showed her the convosation we had.. I dont get it..Im really worryed for him.. I no its wrong what We've done.. I don't no what to do.. im just a kid to be honest, and don't know what im suposed to doo...Do I leave it till he contacts me?? or what :S

ok soz I didnt gt a chance to read all of that I will though but if you want to fun mail me do
bt hun es married like but if hes wiling to gt rid of his wife for you den shoot ahead :D

Yeah. but hes wifes told me to stay away.. or shes coming here face to face.. and gonna tell my parents wot a mind playing person I am, I was just like come than!.. And than she just removed me of hes everything!!.. maybe it was really him on her account :S.. I dont know. but I did text him and he didn't text back.. so I guess im just hanging, maybe hes coming back when hes actually left her.?? or when shes stoped spying orr somthing S:.. I dont know im jsut really confsed and dont know what to do.. do I just leave him alone and not text him till he text's me, but than what if he dont text me ;( = he feelings must of not been true?

How about you tell him to call you when his divorce is final. There are kids involved. Do you want to be be known as a homewrecker, I think not. Sorry to be harsh. Find a single guy your own age and have fun.

Lol I no what you mean.. like I said at the start with him.. I didnt want to get inbetween it all.. theres no point in even texting him sayin that!.. ill prob just get ingnored. maybe he needs time or something

Just leave him alone he is married and playing mind games on your a** He is not even worth it if he text you don't text him ignore him and have nothing to do with him because he is married and just wants one thing outta you so I don't know it is your choice I say git rid of him find someone not married and that loves you... = )

dont go for him or your lifes gonnna be ruined I agree with maebee you dont want to be labelled as a homewrecker so just leave him alone and find som1 better

He doesnt want me for one thing, I've thrown myself at him to test him, and hes turned me down.. I actually agree with you all.. but its just so hard, so many thoughts going through my head if you no what I mean

Why do you keep getting yourself involved with OLDER men? Why cant you just stick to BOYS your own age? The ONLY thing that should matter to you is HES MARRIED! Why are you even going there for heavens sake? You are just messing up your life because you are finding the WRONG guys. Think before you do something, and start making better choices for yourself.

Leave him is all you can do, he b***d about his wife about her not taking her pill and all. What makes you think that his not doing the same thing about you to his wife? If he really told his wife he wants to leave and showed her your convo wouldnt she be more mad at him cause you said in the 1st place you didnt want to get involve?
He is not worth it, if he wasnt really ready to have a family why didnt he told her to give the baby for adaption? if he was really not ready what makes you think he is with u?

Thanks guy