Why hasn't she left him?

I have been dating a married man for the past 4 months. the only reason why I did was because I said he was seperated, well his wife was in another state, now she is back. she found out about me, got a hold of my number and called me telling me everyword...

in the book! I felt horriible, but I still cant leave him. I believe that he is seperated and leaving her soon. I mean why would she still stay? his cell phone is under her name, so she knows that we still talk. I dont get it. after my husband cheated on me and I found out, I was gone!

Wow...
You need to get out of his life and stop being a home wrecker no offense. Let him and his wife sort out their problems. Yeah, she may not be smart to stay with him after all this, I guess that means she truly loves him. You should feel horrible, your interrupting their marriage. Hes getting the best of both worlds right now in his mind, of course hes going to tell you that hes leaving her. If he really cared about you then you would probley be the one hes married to and you aren't, why would you even want to get involved in this type of situation? You have been cheated on, you KNOW how it feels to be the wife being cheated on... yet you go an do this? Thats just horrible, you went from being the wife to being the other woman like it means nothing to you. If I were her I'd be calling you every name in the book too.

Regardless of being married or seperated- you really have no business being with him, until he is DIVORCED. You are with a man who is in the middle of something with another woman. Most likely you are being used for pleasure, happiness, and to fill the void of his wife being gone. These types of things/flings, dont normally last. You should be with a man who is free from the ties of another woman, so that you dont have to deal with these things.

Obviously he is cheating, and since you know how it feels to be cheated on, I am surprised that you would still stick around.

Let him go- and tell him there will be no relationship until you see finalized divorce papers. If that never happens, then you know it was not worth it to stick around.

Respect his wife. They are still married.

Wow, you're setting yourself up to get cheated on twice. Nice call. Because I'm sure he's not going to get tired of you and cheat on you just like he did with his wife and just like your husband did with you. I'm sure this time it's forever. WAKE UP!!

Im also in love with a married man,and we both know it swrong to be,but all I will tell you is just follow your heart sweetheart,its the true answer.Dont listen to the other comments,just follow your heart,it will guide you

Im also in love with a married man,we know it wrong,but it sour heart who falls in love and not us.Dont listen to people,just follow your heart sweetheart,it s the only one that shows you the true things.

Goodluck