Married a while

Asked by m_j 3 months ago, 7 answers.

My husband has for the last 10yrs asked me to sleep with another man, I was scared but now I'm older and looking the best I've been for years I want to do it. He is a member of a website about what men what in sex, and recent we have booked in a hotel...

out of town in september, he is wanting the sex act to come true, he loves me and all that and a condom will be used , but what about giving a blow job. do I get the guy to keep it on while oral him?

Answered by lover15 on Aug 22, 2009, 10:07AM
224 answers

you need to ask your husband if you can do anything in bed with the other guy.or if there any restrictions.ask him before you do anything so he won`t get mad or anything.

Answered by hivetyrant on Aug 23, 2009, 07:49AM
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This is WRONG. Sorry, but this is big time WRONG.

Answered by m_j on Aug 23, 2009, 08:28AM
95 answers

My husband wants me to sleep with the guy, we had a talk about how far I go. I also told him I want it to be a 3some, (if thats ok with the other guy) we have talked about this for years now, and everytime we talk about it we get very horny, there's nothing wrong with havin sex with a person as long as it is what the 2 people want. This has been more on the husbands mind more and more over the years and it just wont go away, I have now agreed to do it as I'm still young and if I leave it any longer the years will just pass by and I will be to old, so I'm going to grab my chance now.

Answered by hivetyrant on Aug 23, 2009, 03:19PM
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Do you know how many lines are being crossed? You're MARRIED. It's all right to have the occasional fantasy, but you made certain promises. If your husband can't get it off his mind, he needs help, whether it be being reminded that you two are married and why to actual, professional help and counseling.

Thank You Raven Answered by jlw82 on Aug 24, 2009, 10:30AM
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This really isn't a terribly good idea, but to answer your question, yes. I would ask the guy to wear a condom during oral sex as well. There is a risk of catching an STD from oral sex. Be safe and don't do anything you're not comfortable with.

Answered by m_j on Aug 26, 2009, 12:01AM
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there's plenty of people out in the world who are married and do a fantasy, We only plan to do this 1 time only and I guess with consent of one another that makes it ok.

Answered by m_j on Sep 19, 2009, 06:36AM
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I'm being asked to go bareback, what are the chances of Aids on this 1 off. and the chances of husband doing me straigh after the deed.

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