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Marriage favors

Asked by thecracker over 3 years ago, 3 answers.

I do a lot of things for my wife when it comes to sex. I give her oral at least 2-4 times a week, plus sex when she wants it. I have never gotten oral sex from my wife, well unless its like licking. I'm saying that my wife has never sucked me off before....

I want her to do it, but I don't force her to do it. I guess my ? is what would you do in my situation???

Answered by keeley on Nov 11, 2006, 05:00AM
82 answers

ask....... whats the worsed thing that can happen she can say yes or no. asking is not forcing

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Answered by bubux007 on Nov 11, 2006, 06:05AM
1958 answers

And you also can ask her that how she is satisfied by YOUR oral performance. Just as an extreme possibility: she may anwer that she does not liket it at all, only lets you do it for YOUR pleasure. For me it is difficult to imagine that a lady enjoys oral when she gets it, but never and never requites it...more than strange..anyway, if I would really want it, I would go for it somewhere else.

Answered by zorbot on Nov 11, 2006, 08:14AM
1536 answers

The best thing you can do, is sit down with your wife and talk about your sexual needs and fantasies. Try to pick a moment where you are both relaxed and won't be disturbed. I think if you start talking about your sex life in general and ask her how she feels, she might feel less unconfortable talking about how you feel. Forcing her to do something would be wrong but talking about it and expressing a desire is a sign of love and maturity.

If your wife has never given you fellatio, it might be because she has some issues surronding it. Try to be understanding and talk these issues through with her. Some women find fellatio degrading or have a misconception that it is dirty and some just feel at a loss when it comes to how to give one to a man. There is no harm is asking her if she has ever thought about it or done it and how she feels about it.

Talking a bout sexuality can be difficult because we fear hurting one anothers feelings but I am sure that if you show her you love her and are willing to listen and understand. You can both find a convenient solution.

Be warned though, that it might take some time and playing around before she feels confortable giving fellatio if ever.

Good luck!