Make over!

I know that when I was at school everyone agreed that we would meet up when we were 20 in june ( the year we left) thing is I was bullied a lot, and I was thinking is it a good idea to do the whole total make-over thing? just to be like look at me know!...

Im not scared any more blah blah blah! Lol I want to loose like 30lbs and dye my hair like a honey blonde. But would this just be against who I am? Or is it a good thing to show how I've changed and they diddnt ruin my life like they wanted? I know its only been like 4 years but I want to show I've changed, is this the right way to go about it?

I think it's ok, as long as you don't do the whole 360' on yourself, I mean don't change your personality who you are as person for them, but if you want to change a lil bit of your outter apperance, then that should be ok , now the blond hair, I'm lil off about, but hey it's your hair, so do whatever you want to it : }

lol im naturally a dark blonde, and im growing my hair out, only problem is it goes yuky looking lol, so I want just one shade lighter lol but thanks you are right

I think your beautiful the way you. you just answered your own question. theres nothing wrong with a little update in style and makeup. but why would you change the core of who are you. don't let them win. you deserve more.

I think that getting a new look can be beneficial for anyone inside and out. I recently just cut my hair and it made me feel a little bit better about myself, I have always been self concious of my body and the hair cut and a little makeup was nice.. I think that it would help your confidence more than anything, just remember who you are and who you want other people to see , go for it!