Should i go stay with my boyfriend or go with my friend?

Okay well I found out a few days ago that one of my best friends really likes me... well I was in love with him since 7th until half way through last year (9th)... and really I still do have some feeling for him but the thing is I have a boyfriend.. and...

I really love him..but we've started to fight a lot and it makes me REALLY depressed it makes me feel like I want to die.. we have been dating for about 1yr 2monts... I dont want to end it but I HATE feeling like I'm depressed... 3 of my friends are telling me to break up with him because they dont like seeing me sad... but the thing is I DON'T want it to end.. but I dont want to be depressed anymore... but my friends keep telling me to break up with him and go out with my friend because he wouldn't hurt me.. he would make me happy.. but my boyfriend tries his hardest to make me happy I'm just really sensitive about some things... I can see my reationship with my current boyfriend going on forever but with the other guy I cant see that happening.. he (my friend) has a habit of running from good relationships to bad ones it seems like hes scared of being happy... and I dont want to end up getting hurt from that...

my question is (in case you didnt catch it in that) is what should I do stay with my boyfriend whom I love but makes me sad or go with my friend whom I like and wouldn't make me sad?

my boyfriend knows that this guy likes me and that I'm being told to break up with him and go out with my friend.. he just doesnt know that I do kinda like that guy... but he does know that I am completely crazily in love with him

Do what will make you happy.

Ok well...I think you should (well this is what I would do in your situation) go to your boyfriend and explain to him how you are sad and try and work things out. I think you should stick with your boyfriend. Your friends should support you whatever you decide to do. As for your friend that likes you if he runs away from every good relationship he has then don't be that girlfriend he's going to run away from. What I mean is, tell your bestfriend that likes you that it couldn't work out because A. You have a boyfriend whom you love B. You've gotten over him but if he had asked a few years ago it might have been different C. that you still want to be friends but nothing more. I can kind of relate to this because I'm in love with one of my bestfriends but I know we'll never get together so...nevermind about me! :-) Stick with your boyfriend you're probably just going through a rough patch because your boyfriend is jealous of your bestfriend that likes you. Ok ok thats just my opinion I may not have a clue because I'm only 14 but I thought I'd give you my input on your whole problem!

Hope it works out KaycieMarie2010!x! :-)

why would you do somthing that puts you in pain..
you should have the right to be in love and be happy! I think you should do whats best for you, what you heart wants or whatever. You should go some where and really think about this by your self.
Hope everything works out for u.
love sucks...

to sumweirdoxd: me and my boyfriend were fighting before I ever told him that my friend liked me... I didn't even know that he liked me till a few days ago... and he told me that he did when my and my boyfriend were fighting.. so I dont think its becasue he's jealous.. also my boyfriend knows that the guy wont make a move because he's a real timid person

have a long talk with your boyfriend about the things you are fighting about and what are some ways to fix them. and if you keep fighting I think maybe you should try taking a break (if that's something you'd be okay with) but don't date someone else until you two officially ended it but don't stop talking to your friend. you can funmail me also if you want to ask anything else..

and don't leave someone you love for someone you like, bc they'll leave you for the one they love.

To nicole_dawn: I would never date someone else before me and my boyfriend ended it I could NEVER cheat on him... I would hate myself forever if I did